12/06/2026
Here's the honest truth, lads:
If we want to raise strong, grounded children then that's what we need to be within ourselves.
A lot of dads are struggling here...
They've neglected themselves for so long that they've nothing left to lead with.
You should be:
Taking care of your body and your mind
Reflecting honestly on the man you're being
Seeking growth even when it's uncomfortable
Setting the standard at home by living it yourself
Otherwise you'll lose them... and you'll lose yourself.
A lot of dads right now are:
Running on empty
Overwhelmed and saying nothing
Carrying weight they don't have to carry
Disconnected from the people who need them most
Going through the motions
That's a hard list to read.
But we all know none of that makes for the husband, dad or role model we actually want to be.
And before I go any further — I want you to know something.
I am so far from perfect it's not funny.
I have my own failures. My own days where I fall short. My own moments I'm not proud of.
But since Cruz came into my life I've understood something I'll never forget.
My family aren't asking me to be perfect.
They're asking me to try. To show up. To keep doing the work. 💚
If this is hitting home for you — here's something that's helped me more than anything.
Journaling.
Before you go to bed tonight, answer these three questions. Three sentences each. Honest ones.
👉 Are you proud of the man you were today?
👉 Did you feel connected to your loved ones — if so why? If not, why?
👉 What can you do tomorrow to be better than you were today?
Do that every night for a week.
Watch what happens. 🙏🏻
— Coach Ian 🐺❤️🏆