03/09/2026
PART 2/3 â Nobody warns you that growth can get fu***ng lonely.
You start doing the work.
You heal.
You question.
You become more self-aware.
Your standards change.
Your conversations change.
What youâre willing to tolerate changes.
And then comes the part nobody prepares you forâŠ
You can love people deeply and still realise you donât fit where you once did.
That doesnât make you better.
It doesnât make them wrong.
It means youâve changed.
And one of the hardest parts of becoming who youâre meant to be is resisting the temptation to shrink back into an old version of yourself just so you can feel like you belong.
Donât.
The right people wonât require you to abandon yourself to keep your seat at the table.
Part 3 tomorrow. đ„
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