10/06/2026
I've been sitting with a thought this week that I can't stop thinking about: transformation requires transparency.
You cannot have one without the other.
We all know too well the toxic cycle of sneaking, hiding, avoiding, and disregarding how much our drinking is impacting us, mostly from the inside. If you truly want to transform your relationship with alcohol you need to start getting honest and be transparent.
Additionally, I'm sharing what came up on a recent Q+A, the moment when every woman on the call recognized that she was using alcohol to solve an emotional problem. They knew it. They could name it. And yet knowing it and actually being able to sit with the discomfort instead of reaching for a drink, that's a completely different skill.
In this episode I talk about the impact of staying hidden and the 3 things that might make transformation possible for you.
THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:
* You know what to do but you're not doing it and you can't figure out why
* You've tried cutting back, taking breaks, making rules and nothing has stuck permanently
*You recognize that you drink to take the edge off or unwind but you haven't been able to stop
* You feel like you're doing the work but something is still missing
*You're tired of hiding this from the people you love and from yourself
*You're ready to stop managing your drinking and actually transform your relationship with it
Most women who over-drink aren't struggling because they don't know enough.
They're struggling because they're hiding.
Hiding the extra pour. Hiding how bad the mornings feel. Hiding the promises they've made and broken. Hiding it from the people they love. Sometimes hiding it from themselves.
And here's what I've learned after 8 years of doing this work:
The hiding isn't just a side effect of the problem. The hiding IS the problem.
You cannot transform what you are not willing to see.
New episode out now — The Missing Piece to Transforming Your Drinking. Link in bio.🎙️