29/08/2026
An identity shift doesn’t happen just because you want it to happen. I believe it begins when something inside you is ready. When you are ready to awaken.
And once that shift is triggered, things start changing.
Your beliefs begin to crumble. Things you used to enjoy don’t feel the same anymore. The way you think, speak and see the world starts changing.
And with that comes one of the hardest parts of an identity shift - loss.
Because for something new to be born, something old has to die.
You might lose friendships, relationships and connections with people you thought would always be part of your life. Not because anyone is necessarily wrong or bad, but because they knew the version of you that you are now outgrowing.
It’s going to be okay. But I’m not going to tell you it’s going to be easy.
You don’t need to dramatically cut people off. Many things will naturally leave your life because you simply don’t fit where you once fitted.
But there will also be moments when you have to choose.
The invitation to return to your old self will appear again and again. You might even look back and think, “But I had so much fun. Things were easier. Why can’t I just go back?”
But once you’ve started awakening, going backwards doesn’t feel comfortable anymore.
I’m telling you this because when I was going through it, I felt incredibly lonely and misunderstood.
Nobody told me it was going to be okay.
So if you’re there right now, wondering what the hell is happening to you, I want to tell you what I needed someone to tell me:
My dear friend, my dear soul, you are not alone.
You’re going to be okay.
Stay strong and keep following that inner feeling.
You already know this is necessary.
You know you’re being called to level up. 🤍
