04/09/2026
Your kid doesn't have a focus problem.
After 10 years coaching kids, the ones who "don't listen" are almost never the problem. The instruction is.
Here's the 3 part fix we use in every kids class:
1. A clear instruction
"Listen" means nothing to a 5 year old. "Stand in front of me, eyes on me, mouth closed" does. Say it once, calmly. Every repeat teaches them the first time didn't count.
2. A reason to do it
Praise beats lollies, but only if it's specific and instant. "You looked at me and stayed quiet. That's listening." Say it within seconds or they won't connect it to what they did.
3. A consequence that actually happens
Small, immediate, related, real. One warning, then it happens. No anger needed. They just need to learn: when Mum or Dad says it happens, it happens.
They'll test it. That's the point. Don't cave.
Save this for tonight and send it to the other parent.
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