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29/10/2026

Thought for the Day

I wonder how many people think deeply about things?

I thought everyone did because, well, I do. Not because I'm any better than anyone else, any smarter, or any nonsense like that. But because I'm curious, especially about cause and effect.

If you do this, then that happens. If I do this action, that result followed. The consequence of doing something is this outcome. Why am I doing something that is not in my best interests? That was weird, why did I react like that?

These kinds of questions lead to interesting discoveries, increased self-awareness, and a more rational approach to life. This applies at an individual level but also at a community and country level.

We must become better thinkers.

27/10/2026

An attitude of gratitude

It’s difficult to feel bad when you shine a spotlight on the good things in your life. Your brain will struggle to do both.

No matter what is going on around you, there are things to be grateful for - even small things like a good cup of coffee in the morning, a warm home, or a kind friend.

This mindset can help you feel better while you make a plan for the bigger things you need to change.

It’s easy to focus on the negativity in the world and what we don’t like about our own lives -sometimes with good reason!

Let’s try to focus on the good things happening around us, what we are thankful for, and what we like about our lives. It’s much better for our mental wellbeing.

26/10/2026

Thought for the week

It might sound harsh but the world owes us nothing. Other people are not obligated to be nice to us. The government is not a surrogate parent who should take care of us. Life is not always fair. We are grown-up humans with agency, don't give yours up. 🌍

25/10/2026

What if the way you think is the one thing holding you back?

Not your skills, or your circumstances, and probably not other people. (It might feel like it's other people but it's not)

Just the stories running on autopilot in the background of your mind, ones you’ve never stopped to question.

Here’s a test. In the last week, have you...

✦ Jumped to the worst conclusion before you had the facts?
✦ Caught yourself going round and round the same worry?
✦ Talked yourself out of something before even trying?
✦ Replayed a conversation and decided someone thought the worst of you?
✦ Felt like your own brain was working against you?

If any of those landed, you’re not broken. You’re just running some very old, very unhelpful software. 😄

The good news? You can upgrade it!

Think Better, Live Better is a practical two-hour workshop where we explore five tools to do exactly that. No jargon and no rah-rah positivity. Just real, usable techniques grounded in psychology and neuroscience - delivered in a way that’s relatable.

📅 Saturday 14 November 10am-12pm
📍 Wellington Central Library - Hui 4
🎟 Tickets at the link below - early bird available now

Your mind is powerful. Learn to work with it. Hope to see you there!

Eventbrite link:

Your mind is powerful but is it working for you? Join us for 5 practical tools that change how you think, feel and live every day.

21/10/2026

When you're striving to do things in new ways, it can feel uncomfortable. Don't worry, it's a sign you're growing, so push through the discomfort to find the better version of yourself.

21/10/2026

Thought for the Day

Life is an adventure with all the twists and turns of a good book you can’t put down. That’s what makes the story interesting. Imagine how boring a book would be without ups and downs, struggles, successes and failures.

You have the starring role in the book of your life, experiencing the same highs and lows as a hero or heroine struggling against adversity - sometimes winning, sometimes not.

So, what characters are you playing in your life story? We take on roles shaped by family, school and experience: parent, friend, mentor, the “clever one,” the “class clown,” or the one who must always be strong.

Some roles reflect who we are. Others become a prison. We all wear masks, but problems begin when we hide because we fear others won’t accept the real us.

Look at the characters you play. Do they still fit? Do they empower or limit you? Perhaps it’s time to remove a mask or reshape a role to match who you are today.

Be prepared for resistance, though - your growth may require others to adjust too. But don’t let that stop you. Get on with being true to yourself.

20/10/2026

A message from your future self.

18/10/2026

Think Better, Live Better is out in the world!

Hi everyone

Hot on the heels of Think Well Corner, I’m excited to share Integro’s new flagship workshop: Think Better, Live Better.

This two-hour, in-person workshop makes its debut on Saturday 14 November, from 10am to 12pm at Wellington Central Library - facilitated by yours truly.

What to expect

This is an interactive, conversational workshop, not a lecture. Expect real examples, honest discussion, a bit of laughter (hopefully) and moments of reflection.

Every participant will receive a personal workbook to use during the session and take home. You’ll leave with something practical in your hands, not just in your head.

By the end of the two hours, you’ll have a complete inner toolkit, and one commitment to yourself about how you’ll use it.

To celebrate the launch, tickets are just $75.00, so why not take a look? I’d love to see you there!

Take care, and I wish you good thinking.

Janine

Find out more and book your place:

Your mind is powerful but is it working for you? Join us for 5 practical tools that change how you think, feel and live every day.

17/10/2026

Thought for the Day

The person who prevails is not necessarily the most intelligent, the strongest, or even the wealthiest. It’s the person who wants it the most, believes in themselves, and never stops trying. And that can be anyone. It can be you.

16/10/2026

Mind matters 🧠

It’s the end of the week. You’ve made it through another working week.

But how are you really feeling?

Are you feeling good about yourself and the week you’ve had? Or are you mentally exhausted, with just enough energy left to get through the weekend?

We’re generally pretty good at recognising the importance of physical health. We know we should eat well, exercise regularly and get enough sleep.

But what about our mental wellbeing? Do we give our minds the same care and attention?

The good news is that there are simple, evidence-based things we can practise to help us manage our thoughts and emotions more effectively.

Here are three worth trying.

1. Reframe the story.

We all make mistakes. But sometimes, it’s not the mistake itself that causes us the most distress. It’s the story we tell ourselves about it.

Instead of “I made a mistake. I’m terrible at my job,” try “That didn’t go as well as I’d hoped. What can I learn from it?”

Same situation. Different perspective. A very different experience.

Ask yourself: What else could this mean?

2. Step back.

When something upsets us, it’s easy to get caught up in the emotion of the moment. Everything can feel bigger and more personal when we’re right in the middle of it.

Try looking at the situation from the outside. Imagine a colleague or friend facing the same challenge.

Ask yourself: What would I say to them?

We’re often much kinder and more reasonable with others than we are with ourselves.

3. Name what you’re feeling.

Sometimes, we know we feel awful, but we haven’t stopped to work out exactly why.

Putting a name to an emotion, whether it’s frustration, disappointment, anxiety or overwhelm, can help us make sense of what’s happening inside us.

Instead of simply thinking “I’m stressed,” try “I’m noticing that I feel overwhelmed because…”

Recognising what you’re feeling is a useful first step towards deciding what you need.

Here’s a little experiment for the week ahead.

Think of something that’s been weighing on your mind. Choose just one of these tools and practise using it over the next seven days.

Be curious. Notice what happens. You don’t need to get it perfect.

After all, we wouldn’t expect to get physically fitter without giving our bodies a little practice. Why should looking after our minds be any different?

Which of these three tools will you try this week?

I’d love to hear in the comments.