10/28/2026
How often do online communities feel like real communities?
We spend so much time building a platform, sharing our work, and trying to bring more attention to the things we care about. But does the added exposure and attention really make us feel that much more connected to each other?
I’ve been feeling that recently. Living in Hawaii, I miss my people back in Colorado. I have great friends here, too, and I’m continuing to deepen those relationships. It just takes time to build those.
The last couple of weeks have been full of in-person connection. My men’s group, regular pickleball, conversations around the island, and getting out to hear more live music. There’s something about doing things together, being a good listener, and having a space where you can really speak and be heard.
It’s made me think about what I want all this digital work to lead to. I want to master my digital space and streamline my processes using AI and other powerful tools so I can spend more time connecting with humans and helping strengthen community. That’s what I want my business to create more of, too.
So I challenge you: reach out to somebody you miss. Make a phone call, schedule a time to talk, or send a voice or video message. Meet in person if you can. Give someone a little more of yourself when you reach out.
And if you’ve been feeling disconnected, you’re welcome to message me and tell me what that’s been like. Connection is something we work on in coaching. I love meeting in person when we can, and we can also go really deep in our video sessions. If you’re curious about working together, I’d be happy to talk.