29/07/2026
You've been meaning to have that conversation for six weeks. The one where you tell someone on your team the role isn't working, or push back on a decision that's already been made, or admit to your own boss that the plan isn't going to land on time.
Every week there's a reason it isn't quite the moment. The team's under pressure. It's nearly year end. You want to see how next quarter goes first.
None of that is exactly false. It's also not exactly true.
There's a question worth asking yourself in moments like this: what is the lie I'm telling myself? Not to be dramatic about it, just to notice the story you've built to make waiting feel sensible, instead of what it actually is, which is avoidance.
The lie is rarely "I'm too scared to do this." It's dressed up better than that. Not the right time. Not enough information yet. Better to be prepared than sorry. All reasonable-sounding. All doing the same job, buying you another week.
Facing the actual truth usually means acting on it, and acting on it is uncomfortable. The lie is comfortable. That's the whole appeal of it.
Worth considering: what have you been putting off, and what's the story you've told yourself about why now still isn't the moment?
Reach for the Sky,
Lisa