06/19/2026
I've had so many clients say this to me, and it feels good to hear these words. But if I'm being honest, part of me doesn't want the compliment.
I want my clients to say:
✨We prepared so much with you that I feel like I could have done this WITHOUT you. I was able to tap into my innate wisdom and connect to my baby, so you didn't have to "troubleshoot" or prepare my labor space.
✨My partner knew exactly how to touch me and what to say, so you didn't have to step in and become a source of motivation and relief.
✨I felt confident in my body's rhythm and movement, so you didn't have to provide countless hours of physical support.
✨When plans shifted, we were able to make the right decision for our journey because you had empowered us with options, our rights, and a fierce sense of advocacy.
✨Thank you for bearing witness to the strength that was always in me. I had no doubt I could do this!
In other words, the best compliment you can give me is that I did little to nothing during labor because through my pregnancy support, you found your divine power to give birth. It's beautiful how much a woman in labor can accomplish without external influence!
I will add that some labors do require an all-hands-on-deck approach and the use of every single tool in my bag, but those should be rare if it's at home or the client goes into the hospital during active labor.
