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11/09/2026

Doing the deep work will heal the wounded boy inside you.

Doing the capacity work will integrate your ability to hold yourself in the demands of being the man your world, and you, need you to be.

What happens in your body when your life feels like it’s too much to hold and everything is asking for your attention?

The version of you that created your current life is not the version of you that can steward it going forward.

You built the life and now you need to build the capacity to hold it all without feeling like you’re going to collapse under the pressure.

Feeling the weight of the amazing life you built is not a character flaw, it doesn’t mean you are failing, and it doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful.

The move is not to start cutting things out.

What you need is more capacity: a nervous system and body that can remain present when things get intense; you need staying power.

11/04/2026

The cleanest thing in any relationship is the truth.

The truth is free of ego.
Free of stories.
Free of societal and historical programming.
Free of childhood wounding
Free of shame or guilt.
Free of judgement.

The truth doesn’t care what you believe about yourself, the world, or the other person, the truth only cares about the truth.

So the question I have for you is not: do you always agree with the truth?

The question is: do you have the capacity to be with the truth?
No matter what it is.
Even if you disagree with it?

10/31/2026

When I was 45, I got a vasectomy. One year ago today, I got that vasectomy reversed. Here’s the story.

I thought I knew what I was doing: reconnecting the vas deferens so that my s***m could once again travel from the testicles and eventually to Michelle as we truly began our journey to parenthood.

And physiologically and biologically, that is what happened. And that was not even close to all that happened.

Beyond that there is the story of the energetic impact and the shift that happened in my masculinity that I did not see coming.

Five years prior, when I got my vasectomy done, I basically neutered myself, and with it I neutered my masculine energy.

At the time I was 45, I was heartbroken, and I made the decision that I wasn’t going to have children of my own.

In a way, I gave up.

I gave up a part of me.
I gave up my voice.
I gave up on my family line.
I gave up on my manhood.
I gave up on my leadership.

Then, over the next three years, I began to heal some very deep parts of me, and around age 48 I got a hit that I wanted to have children and that, if I didn’t at least try, when it was all said and done I would have some pretty serious regrets to deal with.

So one year ago, when I got my vasectomy reversed, within a couple weeks I noticed something about myself.

My primal masculine energy was coming back online.

To be honest, I didn’t even know it was offline.

I felt my vitality, I was able to tap into my inner wild man, and I thought the primal energetic channel was open.

And it was. Not like this, though.

I felt my voice get deeper and more directed. I felt my desire to protect and provide for Michelle and our family go to another level. I felt the depth of my masculine and se__ual energy reawaken in ways that I didn’t even know existed.

Getting the vasectomy when I was 45 was me cutting myself off from the leader, husband, man, and father that lived inside me.

10/28/2026

Right before this happened I was about to start recording other videos.

She said my name from across the living room and asked if I had a minute for her to come into my office.

My first hit was resistance, then a slight annoyance; didn’t she see that I was in the middle of something??!?!!

Then, I took a breath and my ego took a seat and my human that has the capacity to attend to her needs kicked in, and she came in.

She is deep in her luteal phase and all she wanted was a kiss, all she wanted was a few minutes of my time.

And she was right, it up-leveled my energy and what was going to do ended better because she brought her love to field, and I had the capacity to receive it.

10/28/2026

Crisis, like infidelity or addiction, happens when the underlying issue outgrows your capacity to hold it and you collapse under the weight of it.

If I could pinpoint one cause of addiction, infidelity, or “losing your grip on your life” behavior, I would say that it is a lack of capacity.

Everyone talks about how infidelity comes from an unhappy, or rocky, marriage.

How addiction comes from too much pain.

Both are true, and… it’s choice to drink or to cheat is really not about the unhappy marriage, or too much pain in your body.

It’s about your inability to be with the thing, your inability to hold the unhappiness in the marriage, to work through the problem without ejecting, and your inability to be with all the pain, discomfort, and insecurity that lives inside of you and choosing to have five drinks most nights to dull the intensity of it.

The unhappy marriage, the pain your carrying matter.

Those things need to be addressed.

The tipping point into crisis and collapse is not those things though. The tipping point is that you have lost the ability to hold yourself and your center.

“The thing” has outgrown your capacity to hold it, so it crushes you.

If you truly want to move through these things, you’ve got to build the capacity to hold the thing that’s trying to chip away at your armor: the marriage, the pain, the stress, the overwhelm, whatever it is.

Crisis and collapse happen when something outgrows your capacity to hold it.

That being said, growing your capacity to hold your life and all the things that are going to come up is the most important skill that you could ever develop.

Doing the capacity work is what will actually propel you into the life, and relationship you desire to be a part of.

10/26/2026

The tricky thing about capacity is that you don’t know you’re lacking it until you don’t have enough of it to hold yourself in moment of intensity and you collapse.

Want to know where your capacity is right now, take The Capacity Quiz™.

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10/14/2026

The question every man needs to ask himself.

10/13/2026

What will you choose?

There will be a moment in your life when the Devon you make will determine everything from that point forward.

10/13/2026

What do you choose?

Moments in your life will require you to make a choice that determines everything from that point forward.

10/07/2026

Drinking is so hard to stop, because it’s usually the solution to a big problem. Until it becomes the problem.

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