06/09/2026
SARC WEEK 70 - FATHER’S DAY.
Just a quick one before we start, being Father’s Day.
Today we celebrate the dads, stepdads, grandfathers, uncles, mentors — and every man who has chosen to stand up and be there for someone else.
And we also acknowledge those who might be missing their dad today, those who have a complicated relationship with fatherhood, and those who hope to become a father one day.
For me, one of the biggest things fatherhood has taught me is that our kids don’t really listen to everything we say.
We can tell them what to do. We can lecture them. We can yell at them.
But more than anything — they watch us.
They watch how we behave.
They watch how we react in triumph, but more importantly, how we react through challenges, disappointment and stress.
They watch how we speak to our partners.
How we treat our parents.
How we treat strangers.
They watch whether we show kindness. Whether we show gratitude. How we carry ourselves when nobody is rewarding us for it.
And eventually, they start copying it.
So I think one of the greatest responsibilities we have as parents is understanding that we can’t just tell our kids the person we want them to become. We have to show them.
And there’s a saying that has always stuck with me:
The way you speak to your children becomes their inner voice when you’re no longer in the room.
That’s powerful.
Fatherhood has taught me to constantly try to become a better version of myself.
Not because I’m trying to be perfect. I’m definitely not.
But because I know I’m modelling to my kids what being a man, a partner, a father and just a good human being looks like.
I want to become better, because I want to model something better for them.
So whether you’re a dad already, a father figure, or hope to be one someday — remember there are people watching how you move through this world.
Be the person you hope they become.
Happy Father’s Day.
** I wrote what I wanted to say into ChatGPT and here it is lol.