31/08/2026
No uniform. No cap badge. No rank.
In the military, everything about how you were received was communicated before you opened your mouth. Your rank said it all.
In business? A CEO could walk through the door right now and nobody would know.
That was my reality on day one of civilian life.
And the transition was not about status. It was about recognising that the mechanism for getting things done had completely changed.
No orders. No command authority. No badge that said Steve Gaskell just walked in the room.
Just me. And the slow, deliberate work of building credibility through experience, knowledge and relationships.
For me, that recognition made the transition manageable. I had seen it coming and prepared for it.
But for many veterans leaving the military, that moment is genuinely isolating.
You go from an environment where your place, your purpose and your authority are crystal clear, to one where nobody knows you, nobody owes you anything and you have to start again from scratch.
That is not just a career transition. That is an identity one.
And it is one of the loneliest roads a leader can walk.
Have you ever walked into a new environment where nobody recognised what you brought, and how did you find your footing?