02/09/2026
Women are a force of nature. Every single one of you.
You run businesses. You raise families. You look after partners, children, parents, homes, clients, teams — and somehow keep all the plates spinning.
And so often, the person who ends up at the bottom of that very long list is you.
When I worked as a stylist in the UK, I saw it constantly. Women would happily invest their time, energy and money into everyone else, but hesitate to do the same for themselves.
And now, as a Pilates instructor in Australia, I see exactly the same thing — just through a different lens.
I have a couple of clients at the moment who are carrying injuries. They know they feel better when they come to Pilates. Their bodies move better. They hurt less. They feel stronger.
But life is busy. They’re running businesses, being brilliant mums, being supportive partners — and when something has to give, their own appointment is often the first thing to go.
And I completely understand why.
But here’s the part I want every woman to remember:
Looking after yourself isn’t taking something away from everyone else.
It actually allows you to keep doing all of those things you care so deeply about.
Because an injury that is repeatedly pushed to the bottom of the list doesn’t necessarily stay a small injury. A body that keeps asking for attention will eventually demand it.
There’s a saying I’ve always loved:
If you don’t listen when your body whispers, eventually you’ll hear it scream.
And when that happens, you don’t get to choose whether you have time to stop.
So perhaps this is your little reminder today.
You don’t have to put yourself before everyone you love.
But please stop putting yourself after absolutely everyone else.
You deserve a place on your own list. ❤️