08/03/2026
I used to think confidence was something children either had...or didn’t.
Boy, was I was wrong!
After teaching more than 5,000 kids yoga and mindfulness classes, I learned that we often treat confidence like a personality trait when it’s actually something children can practice.
How do children build confidence?
Through small, supported moments that give them evidence:
✨ I tried something new.
✨ I noticed what was happening in my body.
✨ I used an emotional regulation strategy.
✨ I asked for help.
✨ I took the next step.
The goal isn’t to raise children who never feel nervous.
It’s to help them think:
“I feel nervous AND I know what I can do next.”
That’s what meaningful social-emotional learning should provide: opportunities for children to practice confidence, resilience and self-trust—not simply hear that they should be confident.
Parents and educators: What is one small experience that has helped a child in your life realize, “I can do this”? 💗
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