Emma Lagerlow

Emma Lagerlow Wealth & Mindset Coach for Women to Transform Worth, Wealth & Well-being to Create a Fulfilled life.

Who are you without what you do?Without the job title.The achievements.The roles you play.The expectations you’ve spent ...
02/09/2026

Who are you without what you do?

Without the job title.
The achievements.
The roles you play.
The expectations you’ve spent years trying to meet.

Who are you, really?

It’s one of life’s biggest questions — and it’s at the heart of this week’s episode of It’s a Mindset with author, speaker and coach Dion Elliott Jensen 🎙️

For much of Dion’s life, his identity and sense of worth were intertwined with achievement, career, status and the roles he played.

Then life began dismantling so much of what he believed defined him.

And he found himself facing a confronting question:

Who am I when everything I thought defined me is gone?

What followed wasn’t a journey of reinvention, but one of remembering who he already was.

In this conversation, we explore Dion’s philosophy:

“I am who I am, not what I do.”

We talk about identity and authenticity, the roles and masks we can accumulate throughout our lives, and what can happen when we become curious about who exists underneath them.

We also explore the power of journaling and writing as a cathartic practice, the importance of approaching ourselves and others with curiosity, and Dion’s fascinating perspective on love — including why he believes it’s okay for love to sometimes be a one-way street.

Perhaps our greatest transformation doesn’t always come from becoming someone new.

Perhaps sometimes it comes from letting go of who we thought we had to be. 💫

🎧 Episode 108: Who Are You Without What You Do? Identity, Love & Conscious Living with Dion Jensen is available now on It’s a Mindset.

Listen via the link in bio — and we’d love to know:

Who are you, beyond what you do?

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’ll be happy when…”?When I achieve the goal.When I earn more.When work calms d...
26/08/2026

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’ll be happy when…”?

When I achieve the goal.
When I earn more.
When work calms down.
When life gets a little easier.

But what if happiness isn’t something waiting for us on the other side of the next achievement?

This week on It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by happiness researcher, educator, philosopher and author Declan Edwards - “That Happiness Guy” for such a fascinating conversation about what it actually means to live a happier life.

And perhaps surprisingly, it’s not about being happy all the time.

We explore the science of positive psychology, the PERMAH model of wellbeing, our natural human bias towards the negative and why making space for all of our emotions may actually create more room for happiness.

We also talk about the value of doing things simply because they make us feel good, escaping the “I’ll be happy when…” trap, and why prioritising our own happiness isn’t selfish.

Because happiness has a ripple effect. 🌊💙

How we feel influences how we show up in our relationships, our families, our workplaces and our communities.

One of my biggest takeaways from this conversation?

You don’t need to be happy all the time to have a happy life.

🎧 Episode 107 with Declan Edwards is available now on your favourite podcast platform.

Listen via the link in bio — and let us know in the comments: what’s one small thing that made you happy today? 💛🎙️

The Bali chapter 🤍🌴One-on-one time, making memories together.Bali, you were magic ✨
24/08/2026

The Bali chapter 🤍🌴
One-on-one time, making memories together.
Bali, you were magic ✨

Have you ever looked like you were holding everything together on the outside, while underneath it all you were complete...
19/08/2026

Have you ever looked like you were holding everything together on the outside, while underneath it all you were completely overwhelmed?

For so many women, being capable, reliable and the person everyone can depend on becomes part of our identity.

We keep going. We keep giving. We keep meeting everyone else’s needs.

And because we’re still functioning, we assume we must be okay.

But what happens when holding it all together becomes too much?

This week on It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Accredited Mental Health Social Worker, Counsellor and author Pam Espin| Author & Speaker founder of Beyond Purpose Therapy and author of Not Built to Break: How to Stop Surviving and Lead from Wholeness.

Pam has such a wealth of knowledge, and I loved exploring some of it in this fascinating conversation.

We talk about:

🦋 The roots and symptoms of burnout — and why it’s about more than simply feeling tired.

🦋 Women’s tendency towards self-sacrifice and what can happen when we continually put ourselves last.

🦋 Why there are no “good” or “bad” emotions — and what our emotions may actually be trying to tell us.

🦋 Pam’s Trifecta Method and the importance of looking beneath what’s happening on the surface.

🦋 Late-diagnosed ADHD in women, why it can go unrecognised for so long and what finally understanding yourself through that lens can mean.

One idea particularly stayed with me:

We weren’t built simply to survive our lives.

Maybe we don’t always need to try harder, push through or become better at coping.

Sometimes we need to become curious about what’s really going on underneath it all. 💗

🎧 Episode 106: When Holding It Together Becomes Too Much: Burnout, ADHD & Self-Sacrifice with Pam Espin is available now on It’s a Mindset.

Listen via the link in bio and let us know what resonates with you. 🎙️🦋

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