19/06/2026
Today is a terrible day to get married... and a great day to change your life. 💥
According to the Chinese Almanac, today is known as a Destruction Day.
Many people immediately assume that sounds negative.
In reality, it depends on what you're trying to accomplish.
Today may not be the ideal day to get married 💍, sign an important contract 📝 or launch a new business 🚀.
But if there's something in your life or business that no longer serves you...
Today is an excellent day to break it.
❌ An unhealthy pattern.
❌ A limiting belief.
❌ A process that's no longer effective.
❌ A relationship that's run its course.
❌ An old way of thinking.
Inside our Qi Men coaching framework, one of the nine mindset types is called the Destructor. ⚔️
These people challenge the status quo.
They push into new territory.
They don't wait for permission.
They create change when others hesitate.
One of the most important principles we teach is this:
Your God-given power is fixed.
Your mindset isn't. 🧠
You're born with one mindset that's naturally stronger than the others.
But you can learn to access different ways of thinking when life demands it.
Sarah often shares that although her natural mindset is what we call the Hero—optimistic and hopeful—it wasn't optimism alone that carried her through breast cancer treatment or gave her the courage to leave behind a comfortable life to build something completely different.
It was learning to access a fighting spirit when life required it.
Sometimes we need the Risk Taker.
Sometimes we need the Heart mindset. ❤️
And sometimes...
We need the Destructor. ⚔️
Because we can't build something better while we're still protecting something that's broken.
Perhaps today's question isn't: "What should I build next?"
Perhaps it's: "What do I need to let go of first?"