20/11/2021
There are lots of reasons why we don’t get to where we want to be, and lack of talent is rarely the problem.
For those willing to overcome their fears & are ready to do what it takes to move forward, there are still two more important barriers to work through:
🔘 They need to learn what to actually do to achieve their goals.
🔘 They need to overcome their beliefs that it may not be possible for them.
If you want to make progress, you start with the second barrier. You see how it can be possible, and then you learn how to actually do it.
The belief that it might not be possible for you could stem from a whole bunch of things:
Maybe you think you don’t have the time, or that you need a certain set of skills, or you have to be someone you’re not.
Maybe you don’t think you can stay consistent.
Maybe you think you need to sacrifice something you’re not willing to sacrifice.
Maybe you just don’t think you’re the kind of person who deserves to have that thing you want.
^If any of these resonate with you, know that these are common beliefs - very common - and people with less talent, skill and time than you have done everything you think you can’t, while staying true to who they are.
These people were determined to keep growing - like you - and so they learned how to get around the walls that were keeping them locked in place. And once they were able to see how things would work for them, they were able to learn what to do and take action that resulted in success.
When you’re walking down a path and you can’t see where you’re going, everything feels hard, or impossible. But when you can see where you’re going & you can see every pothole you’ll have to deal with AND you can see how to deal with them… you’re set.
There IS a way to make it work. You don’t need all the time in the world, or crazy skills, or to sell out. You can make it realistic and you CAN be the person who deserves it.
It’s just about taking it step by step, learning to see how it can work for you, and learning what to do to make it happen. That’s something that’s absolutely possible. ♥️
PS - That’s something I can help you with, too! DM to talk 1:1 coaching 😊