02/06/2026
I remember some days as a single mother when overwhelm knocked on my door. I always had a choice: to open it and disappear into frustration, anger, or despair - or to stay grounded in presence.
It was through those difficult times that I learned a valuable lesson: be here, now.
I used the school run for deep conversations with my children.
I studied while waiting in my car.
I laughed at the craziness of driving from home, to school, to activities, to work - only to fall into bed and do it all again the next day.
The spiral extended: work, University of Pretoria, school, repeat. And yet, within the chaos, there was meaning.
Presence turned ordinary routines into moments of connection.
It transformed exhaustion into resilience, and repetition into rhythm. The practice of being present is not about perfect balance.
It’s about finding joy, wisdom, and strength in the very moments that seem overwhelming.
It’s where life truly happens.