11/06/2026
To the sports parent always thinking about whether or not you're doing any of this right...
If you’re worrying about whether or not you’re saying the right thing in the tough moments...
If you replay what you said on the ride home and are worried you said too much or not enough...
If you wonder whether you're unintentionally putting too much pressure on them or not stretching them outside of their comfort zone enough...
If you aren't sure if you helped them handle that adversity moment the right way...
Let me remind you of this:
That awareness alone?
That matters.
It means you care.
It means you're paying attention.
It means you're trying to be intentional and not let your ego always lead the way.
Our youth athletes don't need perfect parents with perfect reactions and perfect motivational-quote-worthy words.
They need consistency.
They need a safe place to land.
They need to know that their worth is tied to more than outcomes.
They need to know you're simply ... there.
So if you're showing up?
If you care about how your actions are impacting your athlete?
If you're willing to try and misstep ... and then take the steps to make it right?
You’re probably doing a lot better than your inner critic wants you to believe.
Keep doing what you're doing.
Your athlete is lucky to have you.