16/02/2023
when you were dating was this ever a issue?
I know I was planning activities and thinking of fun ways for me and rav to spend time together, fast forward a few years and we became comfortable in our routines; work, eat and watch tv at home, work, eat at a restaurant, go to shish followed by more netflix. This isn't a bad thing but when it was happening everyday things can become stale. we became comfortable and put on that "relationship weight".
Nowadays we make more of an effort to be active together and here's some things you could try. trail walks (think of questions to ask each other e.g. 3 highlights from the day), try sports like badminton, tennis, golf, swimming. Stressful week at work? book a spa or couples massage, not to be cliché but go to the gym (do something healthy), wine tasting, spend time with family (nephew/nieces will tire you out), book experiences like GoApe, Go out dancing burn a ton of calories, board games at coffee shops, tarot card reading. The list is endless
We get comfortable in each others company. The days become the same (eat, netflix, sleep) so making a conscious effort to spend time together helps deepen your relationship.