05/06/2026
Deeply felt. Invisible in spaces that care for women's physical, psychological and emotional wellbeing.
Matrescence.
I studied psychology for four years and did a PhD on burnout and work-life balance and never heard the word.
I spent two years as a crisis counsellor. Never heard it.
I did prenatal yoga, hypnobirthing, and the hospital birth classes. Never heard it.
I birthed two babies. Still never heard it.
The systems weren't holding it. Neither were my qualifications.
What led me there? My own unravelling.
And yet, from the moment I conceived, my entire life shifted. From me to we. Forever.
There is a word for what you are experiencing. For the dissolving and the becoming. For the grief and the love existing in the same breath. For the woman you were and the Mother you are growing into.
MATRESCENCE.
The transition to becoming a Mother. And it never stops.
This word found you at exactly the right moment for a reason.
Save it. Send it to a Mother who has been searching for language to capture what she’s moving through.
And if you are a Mother who feels the depth of this, who is navigating the shifting identity, evolving relationships, changing seasons of yourself and you sense there is more to uncover beneath the surface:
You are exactly who I am here for.
Come find me 🧡
DM READY if you feel called to explore what working together could hold.