11/15/2022
My sweet girl is right at that age where she can sense she is growing up and wants to, but also knows she’s not quite ready yet.
I told Peter I can tell she wants to cuddle sometimes in the evenings, and I do my best to notice and give her what she needs, but after the day with Melody, it’s not always something I want to do.
Well, this morning, as I was reading during my quite time, she comes out to the living room crying. She had a bad dream. And actually I think it was about our relationship. She told me about it and just cried.
It was in that time that I was able to be there for her, cuddle her, reassure her, and I was oh so grateful I was right where I needed to be in that moment.
You see, after two days of baseball over the weekend, in the cold, in the sun, with Melody, I was tired last night! And I seriously questioned waking up to have my quiet time. But I set my alarm for 5am anyway and told myself I’d decide in the morning.
It was out of pure habit that I just went with it this morning. I just kept doing the next thing I normally do. I’m so glad I did. Because I know her well enough that if I were sleeping and she had that dream, she would not have wanted to disturb me.
When you decide to take care of yourself, you automatically put yourself in the time and space to be able to be there for others when they need you.
You think it’s going to take away from the ones you love, but I’ve found the opposite to be true.
Mamas, take care of yourself first, and you will, by default, put yourself in such a place that you’ll be able to give more to your family.
If you need somewhere to start, reach out to me and ask me about my morning routine and the group of ladies I have doing this with me. It’s so cool to hear their stories like this one. Lights my heart on fire! ❤️🔥