Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

06/18/2026

When you have a horse like Revel that is “profoundly efficient” it is helpful to find ways to keep him curious and engaged. What activities have you found to keep your horse’s mind engaged that creates forward?

06/17/2026

Sometimes the horse in front of us isn't the horse we expected.
Different challenges.
Different timelines.
Different questions to answer.
It's easy to get attached to where we thought the journey was going.
But horses don't really care about our plans.
They just show up as they are.
Maybe part of our job is to meet them there and help them become everything they're capable of being.

One of the things we enjoy about creating intentions each week is that they help us focus our energy.Not on everything w...
06/16/2026

One of the things we enjoy about creating intentions each week is that they help us focus our energy.

Not on everything we could do.

But on what feels most important right now.

Sometimes an intention is about rolling up your sleeves and getting to work.

What intention is calling for your attention this week?

📸 Erin Gilmore Photography

06/15/2026

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06/14/2026

During last Monday's Facebook Live, Justin shared The Man in the Glass by Peter Dale Wimbrow Sr.
What stayed with us wasn't just the poem itself, but the question underneath it.
It's easy to get caught up in goals, results, and the opinions of other people.
The poem offers a different measure.
Not whether you've arrived where you hoped to go, but whether you can look back at yourself honestly along the way.
As Paul said later in the conversation, if you're connected to something bigger than yourself and you're good with the man in the glass, then the destination matters a little less.
We spent some time exploring what this poem might mean in the context of horses, life, and the journeys we're all on. The replay is available on our page in the Videos section.
📸 Erin Gilmore Photography

06/13/2026

Not every horse takes us where we thought we were going.
And maybe that's not the point.
It's easy to get attached to plans, goals, and expectations.
But horses have a way of changing the question.
Each horse brings their own strengths, challenges, and way of being in the world.
And over time, it becomes less about finding the right horse...
and more about discovering what's possible within each relationship.

Psych Saturday: The Roller CoasterSeveral weeks ago, Nubble came up lame. She has struggled with arthritis, and we will ...
06/13/2026

Psych Saturday: The Roller Coaster

Several weeks ago, Nubble came up lame. She has struggled with arthritis, and we will work diligently with our vet and bodyworker to make her more comfortable. I have every hope that, in time, she will feel better and we can continue our journey together.

I hate to admit this, but one of my immediate reactions was disappointment. We had been working so well together. Pippa Callanan was coming back in a few weeks, and I had been looking forward to sharing what we had built and taking the next step. And then, the way these things go, the step did not happen. I found myself standing in the barn with a lame horse and feelings I am not proud of, but will tell you about anyway.

I was jealous of Justin.

He has multiple horses. Talented ones. Horses that, through his commitment and consistent effort, are coming along well and offering him the kind of progress that makes you want to get up in the morning. And there I was with Nubble out of work, with Joey and Revel waiting in the field, horses who, in my discouraged state, felt like more problem than possibility. Joey with his balance issues. Revel with his clear preference for exerting as little energy as possible. I did not want to spend my time managing those challenges. I wanted to progress. I wanted what I had with Nubble.

I share this not because it reflects well on me, but because I suspect it reflects something human that we all experience at some point. Discouragement has a way of narrowing the field. Everything looks harder than it is. The horses in front of you seem like the wrong horses. The timing feels frustrating and inconvenient. The whole enterprise can begin to feel quietly futile.

What I did next was not glamorous. It was simply what I could do. I went to work.

I put time in with Joey, and at first, something good happened. He was soft. There was a new quality to our connection, and I felt the first flicker of genuine excitement about where we might go together.

Then, last week, it fell apart.

The softness disappeared. He started bracing through his neck, getting twisted and tight in his body. My reaction? Disappointment. Frustration. That familiar despair that I was never going to get anywhere with him, and that the whole setback had been a detour leading nowhere. Fortunately, I had enough sense to ask for help.

I asked Justin to ride him.

After getting a feel for Joey, Justin gave me a few specific things to work on. Simple things, as the most useful things usually are. They made an immediate difference. But honestly, what made the biggest difference was not the technical instruction. It was that Justin had taken the time to show up, to watch, and to care about what I was working toward. That made all the difference for me.
Here is the part I did not see coming.

Not only did that session renew my excitement about Joey, it sparked something I had not anticipated. I found myself wanting to ride him with Pippa, the very clinic I had been mourning because Nubble could not be there. And then, almost without noticing, I began to enjoy my time on Revel. He started offering more. I started receiving more. Something had shifted, though I could not tell you exactly what, when, or how.

I have seen this pattern enough times in my work, and in my own life, to know it is not an accident. Setbacks have a way of redirecting us toward things we would not have chosen, but sometimes needed. The narrowing of discouragement, if we can stay in it long enough without giving up, sometimes turns out to be a focusing. A clarifying.

The roller coaster does not stop. It never does.

That is not a reason for despair. It is simply the nature of our relationship with horses, full of progress and regression, lameness and soundness, discouragement and unexpected joy, often in the same week. Maybe even the same day.

The invitation is not to get off the ride. It is to stay on it with your eyes open and, when it gets hard, to have the good sense to ask someone you trust to take a look.

~ Paul

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