The Becoming Company

The Becoming Company Helping men, families, and leaders navigate life’s challenges through coaching and mentorship. Based in Wichita, serving clients locally and nationwide.

06/08/2026

What do you think is more important…

Being honest?

Or being the type of person people can be honest around?

Most of us would probably say honesty.

But what happens when people no longer feel safe telling us the truth?

Not because we’re yelling.
Not because we’re angry.

But because we’re more interested in being right than being accurate.

In this week’s message, I explore what happens when honesty stops feeling welcome, why people withdraw relationally, and how appeasement can be mistaken for harmony.

A question to consider:

Are the people in your life free to disagree with you?

If this message resonates, like it, share it, and invite someone else into the conversation.

06/01/2026

Most people don’t need more advice.

They need more courage.

The issue usually isn’t that we don’t know what needs to change. The issue is that we do.

We know the relationship isn’t working.

We know we’re avoiding the conversation.

We know we’re settling for less than we’re capable of.

The challenge is that truth has consequences. Once we acknowledge it, we’re responsible for what comes next.

In this week’s message, I explore why Accuracy, Accountability, and Altruism are so difficult to practice—and why they matter anyway.

A question to consider:

What truth are you already aware of that you keep hoping will disappear on its own?

If this message resonates with you, like it, share it, and invite someone else into the conversation.

05/04/2026

Coaching vs Counseling

They’re not the same—but they’re not opposites either.

One helps you understand what’s going on.
The other helps you move forward.

Most people need both at different points.

In this message, I break down the difference—and how to know what you need right now.

If this resonates, like it, share it, and invite someone else into the conversation.

04/27/2026

Accuracy. Accountability. Altruism.

Simple ideas. Hard to live.

In this message, I ask a different question:
What would the world actually look like if we practiced these consistently?

Not perfectly.
But consistently.

If this resonates, like it, share it, and invite someone else into the conversation.
This only works if we hold the standard together.

04/20/2026

Accuracy. Accountability. Altruism.

Simple. Not easy.

In this message, I challenge all of us to live into these standards if we’re serious about addressing the current crisis in masculinity.

If you think this conversation matters, like it, share it, and bring someone else into it.

04/13/2026

Masculinity is changing, whether we acknowledge it or not.

A lot of men are still trying to live by an old script in a world that no longer works the same way—and that disconnect creates confusion, frustration, and reaction.

This week’s message is about what happens when the old model breaks down… and why reaction alone is not the answer.

If this conversation resonates with you, like and share. Invite someone else into it.
The more honest this dialogue becomes, the more useful it is for all of us.

Be sure to check in next week as I share the simple principles of masculinity I practice, principles I believe can make the world a better place.

04/06/2026

Most conversations about masculinity miss something important.

We talk about what men are supposed to be…
but rarely about what men actually experience.

And when those two don’t line up, something feels off.

This week’s message gets into that gap—and why it matters more than people realize.

Curious what you’ll see in it.

03/31/2026

Ever notice how different generations of men carry themselves differently?

There’s a reason for that.

We were all handed a different definition of what it means to be a man… and most of them don’t fit anymore.

This week’s message connects some dots I see all the time in my work.

In the next several weekly messages we will explore this.

03/23/2026

Most people don’t lack motivation.
They lack alignment.

I’ve been working with a client (we’ll call him Jason).
From the outside, his life looked solid. Stable career. Family. Responsibilities handled.

Internally, he felt flat. Exhausted. Disconnected.

What he discovered wasn’t just burnout.
It was misalignment in three areas:

• Autonomy — he wasn’t choosing, he was reacting
• Purpose — he had lost connection to what mattered
• Efficiency — he avoided developing skills that would build confidence

Nothing dramatic changed in his life.
But his experience of his life changed.

He started pausing before saying yes.
He began prioritizing one meaningful activity each week.
He focused on improving one area of competence at a time.

Slowly, things shifted.

More clarity.
More engagement.
More ownership.

Self-determination isn’t a personality trait.
It’s a daily practice.

If parts of this feel familiar, start here:

Where am I choosing?
Where am I finding meaning?
Where am I building capability?

Small adjustments, consistently applied, change how life feels from the inside.

— Lance
Helping you author your own becoming.

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