09/13/2024
This is weighing on me heavy today so I figured I would share:
I have a lot of parents and kids ask me “how much should I be practicing?” I don’t really have an answer for that. It depends on what you want. If you want to be a decent pitcher, practice a decent amount. If you want to be an outstanding pitcher, practice an outstanding amount. It doesn’t matter if you have natural talent, or no talent at all. If you work HARD, you can be great.
So many girls want to be the pitcher that they see pitching for a D1 school but don’t understand what that pitcher did her entire life leading up to that moment. That girl made sacrifices. While her friends were doing fun things, she was practicing. At that time, she felt like she was missing out on something. She was tired. She was sore. She was staying after practice to practice more. She was running when everyone else went home. She was going to the gym and getting stronger before school or after practice. She wasn’t doing her homework until 9pm. She was playing in tournaments instead of going to sleepovers. She was frustrated & at times she felt like it was pointless. BUT I promise, she doesn’t remember everything she “missed out on”. She remembers getting to live out her dream.
Trust me, it’s tough. You can come up with a list of excuses every day as to why you can’t practice, but do those excuses keep you in line with your goals? Are those excuses more important than your future self being able to live out that little girls dream? I can tell you first hand, they aren’t. I don’t remember the things I “missed” in junior high & highschool. I remember getting to live out the dream I had when I was 9 years old.
The world will not meet you half way & the odds are usually stacked totally against you but it’s up to you to take what you want. Period. It’s there for you, for anyone. You just have to be willing to make the sacrifices & keep your goal (however big) front and center & not stop until you get there. People will tell you that you can’t do it. Your “friends” will think you’re crazy for having such a big dream. It’s your job to shut that out. It’s your job to put yourself first. It’s your job to be able to say “I did everything I could possibly have done”. I think anyone is capable of anything, you just have to work through the literal blood, sweat, and tears. The process is ugly, but the end result is beautiful.
Thanks for coming to my Ted talk 🩷