09/03/2026
A rider becoming more confident. ❤️
Okay, let’s talk about riders. And riders getting more confident.
I have riders of ALLLL ages. Young and old, who have come to me with confidence issues, both known and unknown.
Young riders can understandably be intimidated by the size of a horse.
I’ve had little riders who were scared to pick up feet, scared to trot, or even cried when they first got on.
But with patience, understanding, and empowering coaching, I’ve watched them change.
-The little girl who was afraid to pick up feet is handling them on her own.
-The kid who was scared to trot is smiling as they trot around the arena.
-And the kid who was afraid to tell the horse what to do blossoms into a fair, confident, yet appropriately assertive young rider.
Then there are the older riders.
The ones who have experienced horrific falls. Serious injuries. The ones who want to ride again but have that little voice in the back of their head asking…
“What if it happens again?”
With patience, empowerment, and more in-depth explanations of the why behind what we’re doing, I’ve watched riders start cantering again.
Riding again.
Trusting themselves again.
And slowly replacing the “what if?” with the “what is.”
And then there are those in between.
The adults who are afraid they started too late. Who feel behind. Who wonder if they’ll ever be “good enough.” Who are learning that it’s never too late to start. That they have more power to influence their own bodies than they realized.
That they are capable of developing a connection with another living being that is completely different from anything else they’ve experienced.
And that sticking to a goal is worth it. Even when progress feels painfully slow. Because you aren’t behind if you’ve only just started.
You’re only behind if you never start.
And here’s something else I want riders to understand:
Confidence is not something you gain once and get to keep forever.
Things will knock your confidence down from time to time. And that’s ok. That’s normal. Not a failure.
Rebuilding confidence can take time.
And honestly? It can be frustrating.
But it is always worth it.
Because every time you rebuild, you have something you didn’t have before:
Proof that you can get through it.
It’s built with patience. Encouragement. Understanding. Presence. Education.
And a coach who doesn’t just tell you what to do but empowers you to understand, feel, and believe that you can do it.
That’s the kind of rider I want to help create. ❤️