05/11/2022
Got a minute? Please read.
I had a kind of anniversary recently and a conversation with my Jiu Jitsu coach that really got me thinking. I thought it made sense to put it out there to the Impact community. I was in class a while back and my coach told me a new guy signed up to train which isn’t unusual but the reason, he was telling me was because the new student, an adult in his 30’s, said he sat in the parking lot for 45 minutes before coming in to check out the academy. Just to be clear, he wasn’t attending his first class, he was just coming in to ask some questions and check the place out. I told my coach, it wasn’t the first time he came here, but the first time he came in.
The hardest thing you’ll ever do in martial arts, at Impact or any other serious martial arts gym, is earn your Black Belt. The second hardest thing you’ll ever do, particularly if you’re an adult, is take your first class. There’s something about trying something new that gets more and more difficult as we age. However, if I had a dollar for every time someone told me they wished they had trained or earned the Black Belt they started working towards when they were younger, I’d be able to buy Mr. Jackson that Jet Ski he’s always wanted. Bottom line is this, we all have things we want to try, learn or achieve but often times something stops us from getting started, for some reason the first step is the hardest.
Back in the 1990’s, you read that right, I wrote down some goals on the morning of New Year’s Day. The usuals were there, weight loss, financial this or that, read more yada, yada. But I also wrote down “take a martial arts class” I fooled around with it when I was younger, never seriously, but I always wanted to try it. Simple right? Make a phone call, stop into a school, sign up, try it out join or not. No big deal. Of course, it didn’t happen. There were schools near my home and work, but I didn’t go in, only drove by saying, next week. Finally, on a Tuesday, February 3rd, a new Martial Arts school was opening a mile from my house. The lights were on as I was driving home from work and a guy inside was painting. I stopped and introduced myself. After a long conversation the instructor asked if I was ready to try it out, I said yes, he said when, I said when is class? he said when ever you come back, you’re my first student. I started that Thursday night with another guy who signed up and ended becoming a very good friend. A short time later, a tall friendly guy named Andre joined and the rest is history.
Fast forward to 2022. I never saw this coming, never even considered it a possibility. I absolutely fell in love with martial arts. I have two black belts and I’m working on a third but the thing that makes me happiest is that I provide for my family doing what I most enjoy. I tell my daughters (and anyone else that would listen) if you had a day that you could do anything you wanted what would you do? Then I say, “can you make that your job?”. Walking into that Karate school on Tuesday February 3rd in 1990 something set that in motion for me.
If you’ve read this far thanks but give me another minute. Whatever is on your “do it” or “try it” list please, please, please get out there and give it a shot! Oder that guitar on Amazon, take that surfing class on Groupon, ride a motorcycle, try Babel. Just Do It! (90’s reference). You might find your passion; you might just change the arc of your life. At least you can cross it of you list.
If you’ve ever thought about trying martial arts please do, the benefits are amazing. Some of the best Black Belts I know waited for years to get started and like me, can’t believe they didn’t start earlier.
Impact’s Adult program is filled with great people but there’s always room for more!
Thanks for your time
Patrick Lynch