02/08/2023
We don’t fear the failure, we fear the meaning we give to it.
Failure is part of our journey. We are not going to tell you that you cannot fail if you learn, even if it's true.
The failure is never the «problem», it's the meaning that we give to it that can destroy us.
I failed because... THERE IS NO «BECAUSE».
The failure can create a meaning where you end up stuck in your own head.
If you give a meaning to the failures that happens in your life, you might end up lacking confidence, love, worthiness or success. Those elements are found within you.
You might say to yourself that you are not able to do it or you can't have it, whatever it is. And you will believe yourself!
We don't have to fear failure because it’s there to course correct our path.
Failure is just… failure. It’s a fact that’s there to teach us something, like «oh, I fell down on the floor, what now? How can I get back up stronger?» We bet you wouldn’t stay on the floor thinking you can’t get back up…
When kids learn to walk, they never think they will never be able to walk because they fall down. They get back up and try again and learn.
But, as adults, we tend to create meaning behind the failures to protect ourselves. But you don't need protection from it if you don't attach any self meaning to it.
You are limitless, confident, successful, loved and worthy of everything.
Wether it's in love, at work or in relationship.
Next time you want to start something new and you catch yourself being afraid to fail, remember this: Look within you to find courage and confidence, and know that you will only fail if you don’t get back up.