09/07/2026
Thoughts from Montana – Joy
The horse lifestyle is tough - long days, tears, disappointment, injuries, sweat, bugs, and mud. If you don’t have a sense of joy, you will be swallowed up by the stress. Do you have that underlying sense of gratitude, wonder, whimsy, purpose, and peace right now?
Long story short, when I was a little girl I wanted to be a cowgirl and a jockey. There aren’t many cows in Maryland, and I am too tall to be a jockey.
I think in a way jumping worked as a compromise. For most of my riding career I found joy in jumping anything and everything (chewy boxes, Xmas trees, traffic cones). It eventually got stale. Times change, people and horses come and go, life gets in the way. I couldn’t get out and “cross train” different disciplines as much anymore which made me bored (more on that another day).
Two summers ago, I went on a pack trip in Idaho and with in the first hour out on trail - as we started to climb up the west side of the Tetons - my joy came back… Fast forward to this summer in Montana riding the trails and playing “spot the cow”…. It was fantastic!
For me getting out of the ring to find new challenges was the solution. It could be that, changing barns, a new mount, a new lesson night, or simply a conversation with your coach.
We all know riding is hard, but it is not supposed to lack joy.