04/08/2026
I have a new client that correlates confidence with being the villain. She says villains are powerful and if I want her to stand confident in her power, she feels conflicted. Villains can tap into other people’s emotions and manipulate them, they are abusive and loud. She’s not sure how to correlate power with positivity. And I don’t think that she’s alone. I was on a podcast last year about power and we talked about how it has positive and negative elements to it based on how you use it. For me, confidence means you have the power to speak your truth, protect your energy, demand respect without apology, prioritize your needs to the top of your list, and say no as a complete sentence. I believe these are all positive things that ensure you are a happy, healthy individual in mind, body and spirit. But your journey is not about me and my definitions. It’s about you. Have you thought about what it means to you to stand tall in your power? Do you have a clear definition of what confidence means to you? Because if you don’t, it will be very difficult to achieve, and I recommend you start your journey there. If you’re looking for support and guidance on your Self Love journey, DM me, and let’s chat.