12/05/2026
Through eLOVEate, I work very specifically with high-achieving, middle-aged women who are struggling through the self-doubt that often comes with transition—aging, empty nesting, career changes, divorce, and more—because I know exactly what that feels like.
I'm in my own transition right now; I've recently realized I've lost my identity.
I used to be that super fit, adventurous chick. I could run 5 miles with no training, complete a Spartan on a whim, go backpacking for days, or hop in my car and move across the country knowing no one—just chasing adventure. I lived in Alaska and North Carolina as an outdoor guide. I was in the gym daily, meal prepping, lifting heavy, training clients…that identity was deeply ingrained in me.
But I’m not that girl anymore.
My body can’t handle the same level of intensity, and after almost 15 years in Arizona, my life has roots now. I can’t just disappear into the next adventure anymore. So I found myself asking: Who am I now? And what do I want that fits with this body and this lifestyle?
Honestly? I don’t know. I'm still in the process of figuring it out.
But, after some serious soul-searching, I realized I miss fun. I miss doing things for no other reason that to simply have fun - no objective, no goal, NO WORK! And that's when I realized, I missed dancing. I missed music, sensuality, movement, freedom, and creativity. So, I researched and found DivaDance—adult dance classes for women, focused on confidence and community—and I’ve loved it! Hip-hop, Latin, R&B…sneakers and stilettos 😆
Was I nervous walking in? Hell yes. But the women were so welcoming that I relaxed quickly and just enjoyed myself.
I still don’t fully know who this next version of me is. But I’m giving myself permission to enjoy the process of finding out. Besides dancing, I've also learned I love being a plant-mom, and a vegan/gluten free baker.
Next up: a paint-and-sip so I can see if I have an artistic side 😃