21/02/2019
My baby celebrated her 4th birthday with a snow day. She was born on a snow day, too. I often wonder if the snow had started just a little earlier or labor started just a little later, would we have been able to get to the hospital? Could I have done what it takes to have an unplanned homebirth? Would primal instincts have taken over? Musings for another time... Today, as I snuggled this four-year-old while the snow fell outside, I kept replaying the peaceful memories of being in a quiet hospital with non-essential personnel told to stay home. It’s not uncommon to have a slew of visitors and interruptions (baby’s nurse, mom’s nurse, pediatrician, OBGYN, surgeon, medical students, room service (even if you didn’t order it, someone will come to remind you you can), hospital staff photographer, lactation consultant, not to mention family and friends) But that little 2-day snowy stay was like something out of a dream. Yes, I was sore, bleeding, and exhausted, but I was also cocooned with my new baby watching the snow fall and being taken care of by an angel of a nurse who pulled multiple shifts in a row so others didn’t have to drive in. So I guess what I’m saying is, if you can’t have your baby during a weather crisis, what can you do to ensure you have just the right amount of visitors to help you but not overwhelm you? Set expectations before the baby comes. It’s ok to decline visitors. If you don’t have a partner or friend to act as gatekeeper and bouncer, ask a nurse to do the dirty work of keeping non-essential staff at bay so you can get much needed rest and bonding time.