07/21/2026
“You’re too young for perimenopause.”
“Everything looks normal”.
If you’ve heard this before, you are not alone.
For many women, the first signs of perimenopause don’t look like what we were taught to expect.
It can look like:
✨ rage that you can’t seem to control
✨ waking up at 3 AM and not being able to fall back asleep
✨ anxiety that feels unfamiliar
✨ brain fog that makes you question yourself
✨ body composition changes that seem to happen overnight
✨ joint aches and fatigue you can’t explain
And when women bring these concerns to their providers, many are still met with “that’s normal aging” or a symptom-by-symptom approach instead of a bigger conversation about hormones.
Part of the problem?
Menopause education is still lacking in medical training.
Research has found that many physicians receive limited menopause education during training, and a 2023 survey found only about 31% of U.S. OB-GYN residency programs reported having a menopause curriculum.
This isn’t about blaming healthcare providers.
It’s about recognizing that women deserve better access to education, evidence-based care, and providers who understand this transition.
Perimenopause is not “just getting older.”
Your symptoms are worth understanding and there are options to help.
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