06/24/2016
Being impatient doesn't make it go faster! Read the whole post. It is well worth your time.
đYOUR IMPATIENCE IS HOLDING YOU BACKđ
It takes a baby between nine and twelve months to start walking, and another few months after that to start walking well.
A baby has no old injuries. No old movement patterns. No old programming. Nothing else to do during their day besides be a baby and figure out walking.
What makes you think youâll achieve a new movement pattern or range of motion in any less than the nine to twelve months it took you to figure out âwalkingâ?
You have the same amount of learning to do as the babyâŚ
And also you have a heaping pile of âstuffâ that has been programmed into your brain and body that will need changing and rewiring.
I *get it* that you want to feel better, move better, and achieve something NOW.
Hereâs the real deal homie, and you need to listen because your impatience is totally effing up your ability to succeed...
When you are learning how to use your soft tissue and joints in ways that you may not have used for 20+ years - itâs not an easy or quick process for your body.
It requires the same biology that a baby uses to learn to walk, that your liver uses when it regenerates its tissues, that closes your wounds after you scrape open your skin.
A baby doesnât negative self-talk when they are at month seven and not walking yet.
Your liver doesnât feel disappointed as it regenerates at the predetermined biological pace.
Your skin doesnât decide âit must not workâ if your scrape doesnât close in 24 hours.
And yetâŚ
You think you should achieve something just as major for your body in just a few weeks or months.
And that there is a problem if you donât.
This makes no sense.
Remember how many times you fell off your bike/tripped over your own feet/messed up tying your shoes?
Remember how many times you screwed up âleftâ from ârightâ before it was automatic to know which way âleftâ was?
You think because you exposed your body to a few dozen, heck, even a few hundred repeats of a stimulus, that it should now be âgoodâ at knowing and handling that stimulus.
This is silly.
How many exposures to âwalkingâ do you think you had before you got âgoodâ at it? Thousands. Probably tens of thousands. Over a long duration of time.
So this begs the questionâŚ
Where are you going anyways that you need these results to happen SOON?
Answer: nowhere, other than to the land of âif I donât get it now, Iâll never get it.â
[Which is a 100% imaginary land built of out of fear, FYI]
When you set unrealistic expectations on something (or someone), itâs a guaranteed trap youâre setting for yourself that youâll be let down, disappointed.
The results are going to take the time they take. You cannot speed up biology. Hear that? You canât.
You will get your results with patience, consistency, and appreciation for the process.
As Alan Watts said with regard to the present moment being truly all there is...
âIf you make where you are going more important than where you are, there may be no point in going at all.â