12/08/2025
1 year sober today.
On December 8th, 2024, I made the decision to quit drinking—and it’s been one of the hardest, most rewarding choices of my life.
Quitting wasn’t the toughest part… learning to live differently afterwards was. The mental battles, the self-reflection, the uncomfortable growth—those have been the real work. I’ve had to face things I used to numb, and I’m still learning healthier ways to cope, express myself, and show up for the people I love.
One of the biggest turning points for me was my daughter. She didn’t sugarcoat anything—she looked me in the eyes and confronted my issue with honesty, love, and courage. Hearing your child tell you the truth about the path you’re on… it hits different. It shook me in a way nothing else could. That moment opened my eyes to the damage I was causing and reminded me of the kind of father I wanted to be. Her strength helped me find mine.
Along with that came my new found faith, which gave me the clarity and strength to finally step into the change I’d been avoiding for too long. Between her love and God’s grace, I had the push—and the support—I needed to begin again.
I also want to thank my amazing wife, my family, and my friends for standing by me, supporting me, and believing in me even when I struggled to believe in myself. Your love and patience have meant everything.
I’m not perfect, but I’m committed. Every day I’m trying to become a better version of myself—more present, more grateful, and more grounded.
Here’s to 1 year down, and a lifetime of choosing better. 🙏🏼✨
