06/30/2021
6 Lessons on Communication AJ & I have learned from our relationship.👇
AJ and I celebrated our 8 year wedding anniversary earlier this month.
We have learned so much about ourselves over these last few years and it has allowed us to nurture this relationship and grow as individuals.
Further, this relationship has taught us how to communicate better no matter the situation.
Let’s break down the lessons.
One. NO ONE CAN READ YOUR MIND. They can read your body language, possibly your tone and other outward signs. But they can’t read your thoughts. If you have a need, concern, desire or question, say it. You must advocate for yourself by speaking for what you need.
Two. No matter the relationship- friend, family, co-worker, networking acquittance, etc. if you don’t make it a priority to invest time it, it will NOT grow. We have to invest time into people we want relationships with.
Three. The quality of the time you spend with others matters more than the amount of time. If you’re distracted and not paying attention to those you are with, how can you listen, learn more or understand them? Be present and put the phone away after you take pictures.
Four. Learn about how they like to communicate. Are they visual person, a verbal processor, or another form? Do they like phone calls, texts, FaceTime or in-person time? Learn about them so you know their preferred method of communication.
Five. Ask questions, be open and listen to others. Too often we are planning what we are saying next versus listening to the other person. Listen, confirm, then move forward.
Six. Focus on personal development and growth in your own life. By growing yourself, you can show up in your best form for whatever you may face and learn from every situation.
What are communication lessons have you learned?Comment them below 👇