07/23/2024
This past weekend concluded my time as a head softball coach.
Through the past three years, I have met and had the privilege of coaching some of the most amazing girls ever! I was so blessed to watch some of them begin their softball journey, just learning the basics at the beginning. I was able to watch eyes light up when they learned a new skill and did it for the first time. I watched their first home runs, their first double plays, their first strike outs when pitching, their first wins, their losses, their love for each other. I watched them spread wings and age up. I've watched some move away. I've watched some move to other teams. One thing remains the same, I will always love and cheer for every single girl that I have had the pleasure of coaching. I have also had the privilege to coach and meet so many amazing guest players along the way. Most of which, I still keep in touch with and follow their softball journey. β€οΈ
I have met some incredible families along the way. We've made memories, shared stories and tears and laughs through the years. I see former players and hug their necks. I keep up with them and cheer them on from afar.
I have experienced the lows of coaching and could probably write a book, but I've also been so blessed to experience what coaching is all about, the kids. Making sure each of them knows they're special. Teaching life lessons and making sure they try to be good people. Making tough decisions at tryouts was always the hardest thing for me to do. I made sure every kid played every inning of every game, except for one game in 2.5 years and it crushed my soul and I never did it again.
I want to thank Samantha Horner for being my ride or die right hand, voice of reason, gummy bear giving, tender hearted coach who's been with me through the highs and the lows of lows. I also want to thank Cory Christensen, Jordan Buso and Ashlie Green for helping coach. You guys were eyes and wisdom and experience. All four of these amazing coaches shared my passion. All four of these coaches gave selflessly to the girls and also loved them. I couldn't have done it without you. I am forever grateful for our time we shared as coaches.
It was never about winning. It was about making each girl better in her time spent on our team. If winning happened along the way, excellent. If not, we learned and got better. This last tournament couldn't have ended my last season on a higher note, and I think the girls needed it as much as I did. We played up in age group most of our 10U season. It was a hard sell to parents and not everyone bought in. We still chased tough competition. Most teams we were facing were all second year 12U teams, some three years older. This last tournament, everything came together. Our pitchers pitched amazing, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. The bats were coming together. Defensive plays were happening. I know I said it in a previous post, but I told the girls if they won two games I'd treat them to ice cream. They battled so hard all tournament. A 15 hour day in the heat day two and about an 11 hour day the third day. They won three games in a row the last day and ended up 3rd place in 12U Nationals!!!!!!! Their faces, their excitement, the cheers from the opposing team.....it made every tear, all the stress, everything that the coaches experienced all season long, worth every bit. They proved to everyone at the field that day, this group of 10U players were ready to compete at the next level. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!
Don't worry, I'm not completely done coachingπ€ͺ....next project is a Dream travel volleyball team coming soon. Stay tuned and follow the Dream girls and some new faces soon!! π
THANK YOU FOR ALL OF THE MEMORIES!!!!! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ