09/09/2026
What if the best thing you could do in a difficult moment during divorce… is **nothing yet?**
This week on *Doing Divorce Different*, I sat down with family law attorney and author **Nicole Sodoma**, and she gave us one word I absolutely love:
**Selah.**
Pause.
Before you respond to that text.
Before you fire off the email.
Before you make a decision while your emotions are running high.
Nicole brings such a unique perspective to this conversation. She has practiced family law for 25 years—and she has also walked through divorce herself.
We talk about:
✨ What to do when divorce feels completely overwhelming
✨ Why women need to understand their finances
✨ Why we say “I’m sorry” when we aren't actually sorry
✨ How to communicate with a difficult co-parent
✨ How to protect your kids from carrying the emotional weight of divorce
✨ And why sometimes the most powerful response is simply to **pause**
This conversation is full of practical wisdom, but more importantly, HOPE.
🎧 Listen to this week’s *Doing Divorce Different* wherever you listen to podcasts.
And send this to a woman who may need the reminder today:
**You don't have to react to everything immediately. Selah. Pause. Then choose your response.**
