10/31/2026
Your horse life is allowed to look different from someone else’s. ❤️
Some people have Grand Prix goals.
Some people have “I’d just like to walk around on my horse and enjoy the sunshine” goals.
Some people dream of breeding the next great sport horse, some want to jump bigger jumps, some want to explore trails, and some are perfectly content spending an afternoon grooming a horse they have no intention of riding.
And I think that’s wonderful.
I have some pretty ambitious goals for my own horses and my career. I love training, competing, and seeing just how far we might be able to go together.
But I don’t think that makes my version of loving horses any more meaningful than someone else’s.
I hope the person chasing a Grand Prix dream finds just as much joy in the pursuit as the person whose favorite part of the week is a leisurely walk around the farm.
I hope they’re both equally excited to pull into the barn driveway.
I hope they both go home smiling, thinking about how lucky they are to have horses in their lives.
And I hope neither feels the need to justify their version of happiness to the other.
Because at the end of the day, I don’t think the level of our ambition should determine the amount of joy we’re allowed to find in our horses.
As long as we’re being kind to them in the pursuit of what makes us happy, let’s not be terribly concerned with how differently that happiness might look from one person to the next.
There’s room for all of us to love horses in our own way.
*Cox Sport horses