07/12/2023
I want to talk about something a little different today that is just as monumentally important than being the best rider you can be:
Find a good coach and one that speaks your language in all areas.
Literally ANYONE can slap a logo together, open up their barn and call themselves a coach. That does not mean that they SHOULD be teaching other people.
Get recommendations and do your research on their experience with riding. If you want to become the best rider you can possibly be, you want someone who has been in the game for a long, long time and who has an overabundance of expertise to pass on to you.
But not only this, you want someone who can speak on your level. I've learned a lot in my lesson days, but my biggest lesson was learning that I can sit there and yell at someone to do something all day long, but you are literally speaking in a foreign language to them. They can have zero idea what you are telling them to do, and even when they get it, they are still guessing at what they are doing right.
Get up on your horse, explain, and demonstrate. Progress happens so much faster that way! Be a better coach so your kids can become better riders. I've always told my kids: My goal is for you to eventually surpass me and kick my butt at races - not just on the clock, but on form, on cleanliness, on any technicality you can think of. If that doesn't happen, I haven't done my job.
If I was training to only get them to a certain level before saying that's enough, shame on me.
It goes both ways!
Riders - Research your coach and make sure they are the type of trainer you need.
Coaches - Be the best you can possibly be at your job! Give examples. Demonstrate. Break things down. Don't stand around in the arena yelling at your kids to do something when they have no idea what you're trying to tell them!