09/08/2026
I’m now 6 months postpartum with baby #10 & about halfway to returning to my pre-pregnancy weight range.
I am in my 40’s, & my body isn’t what it was even two babies ago. But the principles of fat loss remain the same. If you were my client, & wanted to lose weight after birthing a human (what a queen you are!) here’s what I would tell you (& what I do myself):
1) Take your time. Be patient. I’ve taken as long as 15 months (baby #9) & as quick as 6 months (baby #7), to lose all the pregnancy weight. It isn’t a competition—go at a pace that is sustainable to your life right now.
2) Realize that you’ll have to make some sacrifices to get to the gym, or do that home workout. It likely will mean giving up other things. This is a season. It will get easier.
3) You need to eat a bit more if you’re breastfeeding (yes I have dessert EVERY day). Even if you’re using formula, realize that you need to fuel yourself to have energy to take care of your baby, yourself, & the rest of your family. It takes up to a year to replenish your nutrient stores after pregnancy, so focus on nutrient dense foods.
4) Patience. Play the long game. This is no time for quick fixes or crash diets.
5) Your baby loves you no matter your size! It’s great to have body composition goals, if that is important to you, & getting into a healthy weight range has loads of benefits, but realize it will always be a moving target & that your value isn’t tied to your size.
6) If you’re breastfeeding, even if you’re supplementing with formula, you need extra calories & extra nutrients. Now isn’t the time for a 1200 calorie diet.
7) Home workouts, working out with your kids, making your 20 minute walk with baby in the stroller your workout of the day—it all counts! Done is better than perfect. Aim for movement most days of the week.
8) Don’t wait for your “After” to love your body! You created a human & that is the kind of top level magic (otherwise known as biology & science) that’s truly a gift & a miracle.
👉 New moms: what’s your biggest struggle after you have a baby? I’ll go first: I need more hours in the day!
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