09/07/2026
There is only one winner in most horse show classes. That means even very successful riders spend a lot of time not winning. For Ava Stearns, learning how to handle that reality became an important part of her own riding career and, later, part of the perspective she brings to her work as a commentator.
“This is a sport where you’re going to lose more than you win,” Stearns said on episode 483 of The Plaidcast. “And if you don’t figure out how to lose and how to lose effectively, you’re not gonna get better.”
Stearns has competed on some of the biggest stages in equitation, including winning the Maclay Finals and finishing near the top in other national championships. She is also quick to point out that she has made mistakes on those same stages. “I’ve made mistakes on every national stage you can do so,” she said.
That experience shapes the way she talks about riders during broadcasts. She knows how exposed a mistake can feel at a major championship, especially for a junior rider competing at that level for the first or second time. A missed distance or disappointing round can suddenly feel enormous because it happened in front of a crowd, judges, trainers, family, and everyone watching the livestream.
Stearns wants riders to remember that mistakes are normal. “It happens to the best riders in the world,” she said. One imperfect round is not unusual, and it is not proof that a rider does not belong at that level.
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