02/05/2026
This… This was my marriage. Working full time, paying bills, running the kids—but there were 4 kids in that pile.
When our marriage counselor pointed to me, crying about being overwhelmed and frustrated, and asked my spouse, “Can’t you see that she’s drowning?”
My ex responded, “Well, all she needs to do is make me a list”
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I felt invisible in my marriage for a long time. And this statement was the beginning of the end for us.
Handling all the things I could do. I’m good at it. But not being seen, not being validated in my overwhelm was crushing.
My needs didn’t matter much in my marriage. For me to express them (my fault) or for him to notice or be open to listen. I didn’t ask for “too much” because I wanted to make him happy so I played small.
So many women do this. Men do as well, but as women, we don’t want to be “too loud” or “too needy” or “too much” so we shrink ourselves.
Shrinking was one bad habit I followed. The other was being in my masculine energy doing all the things: working, negotiating the car purchase, paying the bills, doc visits, rescuing everyone, and s*x felt like a chore to do. I was dying inside.
If this photo stirs something in you as a woman, you were probably raised to be a pleaser, taught your emotions don’t matter, and your identity depends on someone else noticing or “choosing” you.
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Who would you be if you STOPPED SHRINKING??
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