Healing Talks Back with Rae Gaelyn Emerson

Healing Talks Back with Rae Gaelyn Emerson Trauma-informed coaching, consultation and supervision with Rae Gaelyn Emerson

https://youtu.be/SAcAqPejDFI?si=1Wr4OQqaR-xZKsTp I really loved this latest episode of Ask the Betrayed, the podcast I c...
08/21/2026

https://youtu.be/SAcAqPejDFI?si=1Wr4OQqaR-xZKsTp

I really loved this latest episode of Ask the Betrayed, the podcast I co-host with Sharon Rinearson from CORE Relationship Recovery.

We take a pretty deep dive (both theoretical and practical) into the topic of Therapeutic Separations—and why we both believe it’s got game-changing potential when healing from s*xual and relational infidelity.

Special shout out to two special friends and colleagues whose resources we reference during the podcast: Dr. Jill Manning (https://drjillmanning.com) and Shawna Meek at Living Stones Coaching (https://www.livingstonescoaching.com).

PS: Two weeks from now we’ll drop the next episode, focused on REUNITING after Therapeutic Separations. You can follow our channel here: https://youtube.com/?si=02WOkuOIadKkkVVh

https://youtu.be/SAcAqPejDFI?si=1Wr4OQqaR-xZKsTp

Could a therapeutic separation actually save your relationship afte...

FINAL REMINDER: For anyone interested, today is the VERY LAST DAY to register for our 2026 cohort of “Rediscovering Me: ...
07/15/2026

FINAL REMINDER:

For anyone interested, today is the VERY LAST DAY to register for our 2026 cohort of “Rediscovering Me: Who Am I Beyond My Trauma?”

We’ve still got spaces if you want to join us!

Here’s a detailed info sheet re RDM26:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1U_5dz9lLJEf-WnmDIv5qr94Jhthk4umq/view?usp=share_link

Here’s a 7 minute video from me that introduces the group:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/16f55D9l6ALpOClvbEUfR-koDXUa6ko0E/view?usp=share_link

And here’s the registration form if you’re ready to hop on board:
https://forms.gle/kqTQF1HTmZzthfKH7

With anticipation,
Rae Gaelyn Emerson
Healing Talks Back with Rae Gaelyn Emerson

07/08/2026

TIME'S ALMOST UP! Are you longing to spend six solid months focused on your own healing, self-discovery and post-traumatic growth? If so, please reach out to me about joining REDISCOVERING ME 2026. We still have spaces open—and we have limited scholarship support for those who might need it.

Orientation Week begins this Friday 7/10, and our first live Zoom session begins next Thursday 7/16.

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REDISCOVERING ME: “Who Am I Beyond My Trauma?” is a six-month support group for female survivors of relational trauma: abandonment, abuse, addiction, betrayal, deception, divorce, infidelity and more. Within this group, we utilize material written by author, educator and advocate Heather Plett from the Centre for Holding Space. (You can learn more about Heather's work at www.centreforholdingspace.com).

This will be my SEVENTH cohort for Rediscovering Me, coaching more than 90 women through finding new identity beyond their experience as trauma survivors.

Got 7 minutes and want to know more about this special support group? Check out this quick little video I recently recorded: https://drive.google.com/file/d/16f55D9l6ALpOClvbEUfR-koDXUa6ko0E/view?usp=sharing

Orientation Week Begins: July 10, 2026

First Live Session via Zoom: July 16, 2026

Weekly on Thursdays: 5pm CT (or your local equivalent)

Cost: $100 per month ($600 total)

Printable Info Sheet: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1U_5dz9lLJEf-WnmDIv5qr94Jhthk4umq/view?usp=sharing

Register: https://forms.gle/HPF6Wrf7bppx2ASr5

Questions? Schedule a free consult: https://healingtalksback.as.me

Already on Board? Schedule your free RDM Welcome Interview: https://lorishelleycoaching.as.me/?appointmentType=78931538

Hear RDM Reflections from Lori Shelley: https://drive.google.com/file/d/14mFoFrvIIFm2tTvce8qSHNk6Jnt229Ck/view?usp=share_link

Registration Closes: July 15, 2026

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:

Q: I’m really sensitive to hearing other people’s stories. How does that work in this group? A: Unlike many support groups for trauma survivors, this group will provide minimal focus upon the preliminary stages of trauma recognition and recovery. By contrast, Rediscovering Me is deliberately designed to support women ready to “re-engage” life in a positive, productive and progress-oriented direction. We’ll do this against the big-picture backdrop of our shared experience as trauma survivors, but we won’t be exploring traditional recovery topics, trauma triggers, crisis intervention or relationship repair. By narrowing our focus in this intentional direction, we co-create a brave and empowering space where we move through and beyond our trauma, rather than remaining stuck deep within it.

Q: I’m working to reconcile with my partner in the aftermath of relational trauma—OR—I’m divorced, divorcing and/or separating—is this group for me? A: This group is for ANY woman who is ready to continue her journey beyond our experience(s) of relational trauma. This group isn’t about the people with whom you have (or don’t have) an intimate relationship. It’s not exclusive to women wounded by addiction or infidelity, and participation isn’t based upon your past, present or future relationship status. THIS GROUP IS ALL ABOUT US! Who are we, where are we, and how we can move forward with increased clarity and confidence.

Q: How big is the group? What if I’m uncomfortable interacting with other participants? A: We are limiting the group to approximately 15 participants in order to provide safe and manageable group interactions. We hope to create a space where you’re comfortable sharing about yourself, your insights and your experiences. However, there is no minimum requirement for group interactions, and YOU get to decide how much and what kind (if any) interaction you wish to exchange with your coaches and peers. You are welcome to make this journey as introverted or extroverted as YOU need it to be.

Q: How much time will this group require? A: This journey is all about you and your choices—and that includes how much time you invest in the group. Between each week’s readings, exercises and live coaching sessions, most participants spend one to three hours per week online/offline engaging our group offerings and environment.

Q: What if I don’t have Facebook? Can I still participate in the group? A: Yes, you may certainly still participate in the group! While most interactions between participants will take place within our exclusive Facebook space, our coaches will make every effort to send key content via email, in addition to posting it via FB. If you’re concerned about privacy on social media, we invite you to consider creating a completely separate, non-identifying profile exclusively for your activities within our group. If you want our help to do that, please ask!

Q: What if I can’t make the live weekly Zoom sessions? A: You are invited along on this journey, even if you’re not available on Tuesdays. For those who cannot attend live, we’ll encourage you to remain connected to us via our exclusive Facebook space. For your convenience, we’ll also record and share video from our weekly Zoom sessions; those videos will be available for you to watch through the end of 2026.

Q: Six months is a big commitment. What if I bite off more than I can chew? What if I get overwhelmed along the way? A: Six months IS a lot of time, isn’t it! That said, life takes time to process in deep and meaningful ways. Most of us spent YEARS getting lost in the context of relational trauma, so rediscovering ourselves won’t happen overnight. During these six months, we’ll pause frequently at strategic intervals: to catch our breath, to review our goals, and to reorient ourselves for the next stretch ahead. We’ll help you absorb and integrate what you’re learning and how you’re growing. We’ll support you if you need to disengage from the group temporarily, and we’ll encourage you to reengage when you’re ready. You’ll also have access to the material indefinitely, so you can revisit it later for future reference. Please remember that we do not refund registration fees for non-participation; we will invoice you for your second payment, even if you choose to withdraw from group interactions.

Q: What if I can’t afford the registration fees? A: Limited scholarship assistance is available; if you need it, please ask!

Q: Can I join after July 15? If I don’t register now, will I have a later opportunity? A: To preserve the connection we nurture as a group, Rediscovering Me will officially close on July 15, 2026, with no new participants accepted after that date. If you miss the registration deadline but would like to join a future group, please email Rae at [email protected]. In the meantime, you may wish to purchase The Spiral Path (as a self-paced course) at www.centreforholdingspace.com.

I wrote this blog post last July for Ellia Marcum at Turning To Peace Magazine. In it, I reflect about what “independenc...
07/02/2026

I wrote this blog post last July for Ellia Marcum at Turning To Peace Magazine. In it, I reflect about what “independence” means to me as a divorced woman.

“In doing so, I had to displace the idea that independence is inherently selfish. I had to regard my independence as a utilitarian instrument of choice, one that I could either (a) utilize to heal myself openheartedly OR (b) weaponize to defend myself bitterly. I’m forever proud that I chose to do the former.”

Full article here: https://healingtalksback.com/independenceday/

PS: Need support to explore or embrace the independence of a divorce you never wanted? Consider joining us for “Avenue D: Road to Debridement.” New groups start July 14 and 16. Learn more: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1h4dc4agv-A_ZNuBG2CMwemHxMrPTpoy_/view?usp=drivesdk

I’m finally back home after 3 powerful days representing APSATS at the Hope for Healing conference hosted by Lit Path. F...
06/30/2026

I’m finally back home after 3 powerful days representing APSATS at the Hope for Healing conference hosted by Lit Path.

For those who don’t know, Lit Path is a non-profit organization helping individuals, couples and families to subsidize the cost of therapy following infidelity. If you’re looking for an organization well deserving of charitable donations, give this one a look.

Lit Path nonprofit provides partial scholarships for psychotherapy to support recovery from gambling, food, s*x, po*******hy, shopping, tech, substance, etc addictions. FREE to participate.

WE'RE BACK!!!REGISTRATION NOW OPEN for Rediscovering Me 2026—with Rae Gaelyn Emerson from Healing Talks Back and special...
06/26/2026

WE'RE BACK!!!

REGISTRATION NOW OPEN for Rediscovering Me 2026—with Rae Gaelyn Emerson from Healing Talks Back and special incoming guest coach Lori Shelley!

*****
REDISCOVERING ME: “Who Am I Beyond My Trauma?” is a six-month support group for female survivors of relational trauma: abandonment, abuse, addiction, betrayal, deception, divorce, infidelity and more. Within this group, we utilize material written by author, educator and advocate Heather Plett from the Centre for Holding Space. (You can learn more about Heather's work at www.centreforholdingspace.com).

This will be my SEVENTH cohort for Rediscovering Me, coaching more than 90 women through finding new identity beyond their experience as trauma survivors.

Got 7 minutes and want to know more about this special support group? Check out this quick little video I recently recorded: https://drive.google.com/file/d/16f55D9l6ALpOClvbEUfR-koDXUa6ko0E/view?usp=sharing

Orientation Week Begins: July 10, 2026

First Live Session via Zoom: July 16, 2026

Weekly on Thursdays: 5pm CT (or your local equivalent)

Cost: $100 per month ($600 total)

Printable Info Sheet: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1U_5dz9lLJEf-WnmDIv5qr94Jhthk4umq/view?usp=sharing

Register: https://forms.gle/HPF6Wrf7bppx2ASr5

Questions? Schedule a free consult: https://healingtalksback.as.me

Already on Board? Schedule your free RDM Welcome Interview: https://lorishelleycoaching.as.me/?appointmentType=78931538

Hear RDM Reflections from Lori Shelley: https://drive.google.com/file/d/14mFoFrvIIFm2tTvce8qSHNk6Jnt229Ck/view?usp=share_link

Registration Closes: July 15, 2026

*****
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:

Q: I’m really sensitive to hearing other people’s stories. How does that work in this group? A: Unlike many support groups for trauma survivors, this group will provide minimal focus upon the preliminary stages of trauma recognition and recovery. By contrast, Rediscovering Me is deliberately designed to support women ready to “re-engage” life in a positive, productive and progress-oriented direction. We’ll do this against the big-picture backdrop of our shared experience as trauma survivors, but we won’t be exploring traditional recovery topics, trauma triggers, crisis intervention or relationship repair. By narrowing our focus in this intentional direction, we co-create a brave and empowering space where we move through and beyond our trauma, rather than remaining stuck deep within it.

Q: I’m working to reconcile with my partner in the aftermath of relational trauma—OR—I’m divorced, divorcing and/or separating—is this group for me? A: This group is for ANY woman who is ready to continue her journey beyond our experience(s) of relational trauma. This group isn’t about the people with whom you have (or don’t have) an intimate relationship. It’s not exclusive to women wounded by addiction or infidelity, and participation isn’t based upon your past, present or future relationship status. THIS GROUP IS ALL ABOUT US! Who are we, where are we, and how we can move forward with increased clarity and confidence.

Q: How big is the group? What if I’m uncomfortable interacting with other participants? A: We are limiting the group to approximately 15 participants in order to provide safe and manageable group interactions. We hope to create a space where you’re comfortable sharing about yourself, your insights and your experiences. However, there is no minimum requirement for group interactions, and YOU get to decide how much and what kind (if any) interaction you wish to exchange with your coaches and peers. You are welcome to make this journey as introverted or extroverted as YOU need it to be.

Q: How much time will this group require? A: This journey is all about you and your choices—and that includes how much time you invest in the group. Between each week’s readings, exercises and live coaching sessions, most participants spend one to three hours per week online/offline engaging our group offerings and environment.

Q: What if I don’t have Facebook? Can I still participate in the group? A: Yes, you may certainly still participate in the group! While most interactions between participants will take place within our exclusive Facebook space, our coaches will make every effort to send key content via email, in addition to posting it via FB. If you’re concerned about privacy on social media, we invite you to consider creating a completely separate, non-identifying profile exclusively for your activities within our group. If you want our help to do that, please ask!

Q: What if I can’t make the live weekly Zoom sessions? A: You are invited along on this journey, even if you’re not available on Tuesdays. For those who cannot attend live, we’ll encourage you to remain connected to us via our exclusive Facebook space. For your convenience, we’ll also record and share video from our weekly Zoom sessions; those videos will be available for you to watch through the end of 2026.

Q: Six months is a big commitment. What if I bite off more than I can chew? What if I get overwhelmed along the way? A: Six months IS a lot of time, isn’t it! That said, life takes time to process in deep and meaningful ways. Most of us spent YEARS getting lost in the context of relational trauma, so rediscovering ourselves won’t happen overnight. During these six months, we’ll pause frequently at strategic intervals: to catch our breath, to review our goals, and to reorient ourselves for the next stretch ahead. We’ll help you absorb and integrate what you’re learning and how you’re growing. We’ll support you if you need to disengage from the group temporarily, and we’ll encourage you to reengage when you’re ready. You’ll also have access to the material indefinitely, so you can revisit it later for future reference. Please remember that we do not refund registration fees for non-participation; we will invoice you for your second payment, even if you choose to withdraw from group interactions.

Q: What if I can’t afford the registration fees? A: Limited scholarship assistance is available; if you need it, please ask!

Q: Can I join after July 15? If I don’t register now, will I have a later opportunity? A: To preserve the connection we nurture as a group, Rediscovering Me will officially close on July 15, 2026, with no new participants accepted after that date. If you miss the registration deadline but would like to join a future group, please email Rae at [email protected]. In the meantime, you may wish to purchase The Spiral Path (as a self-paced course) at www.centreforholdingspace.com.

AVENUE D: ROAD TO DEBRIDEMENT4-Month Topical Support Group for Betrayal-Related Divorce Support2 New Cohorts start in Ju...
06/24/2026

AVENUE D: ROAD TO DEBRIDEMENT
4-Month Topical Support Group for Betrayal-Related Divorce Support

2 New Cohorts start in July:

Thursdays @ 9–11am CT with Rae Emerson, beginning July 15, 2026

Tuesdays @ 5–7pm CT with Lori Shelley, beginning July 13, 2026

Avenue D is a 4-month, topic-based coaching support group, created to provide a safe and validating environment for female survivors of betrayal-related separation or divorce. Unlike other programs that concurrently support ALL women wounded by s*xual betrayal, regardless of their relationship status, this group will focus EXCLUSIVELY on the needs of divorced, divorcing or permanently separated women—the unique challenges involved in the process of dissolving an intimate partnership, combined with new aspects of living independently beyond that relationship with a s*xually deceptive loved one.

Cost = $1600 for 13 2-hour sessions. Pay in full by June 30, 2026 and save $100

For a detailed flyer: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1h4dc4agv-A_ZNuBG2CMwemHxMrPTpoy_/view?usp=drivesdk

To register: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1tyACTDWfRFXrXb-lvcU5mxVgTo7O8UkLPGPQhmsjK5I/edit?usp=drivesdk

Got questions? Email [email protected]

Hey Colleagues! I still have space in my four-week Trauma-Savvy Coach Approach class that begins next Tuesday, May 5 (3–...
04/27/2026

Hey Colleagues!

I still have space in my four-week Trauma-Savvy Coach Approach class that begins next Tuesday, May 5 (3–4:50pm CT). This will be a small cohort, with lots of time for deep topic discussions.

While focused upon the core competencies demonstrated by coaches who work ethically with trauma survivors, this class is also helpful for therapists, clergy and other professionals to better understand how coaching can support clients healing from addiction, abuse and/or partner betrayal.

Please note this is separate from APSATS Consultation Supervision and ICF Mentor Coaching.

Here’s an info sheet with complete details, including a long list of endorsements from colleagues who have benefited from working with me to develop their own Trauma-Savvy Coaching skillset: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XRBelTZXtKRATxnCyrPWjslxo36ha68e/view?usp=sharing

Limited scholarship support is available; if you need it, please ask!

If you’ve got questions, please reach out via email: [email protected]

If you’re ready, you can register via this link: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScwtx9LVySKW3SlJUDKdwx5ue2zzIp-l9pZ-QQL0CD6DyOZyw/viewform?usp=share_link&ouid=113537801387898738832

With anticipation,
Rae

MONTHLY INVITE: I’ve currently got space in one of my favorite support groups, "DREAMGIRLS: Designing Our New Lives.” It...
04/24/2026

MONTHLY INVITE: I’ve currently got space in one of my favorite support groups, "DREAMGIRLS: Designing Our New Lives.” It’s an ongoing, open-topic support group exclusively for survivors of betrayal-related separation and divorce.

Two group sessions each week:

Tuesday 12–1:30pm CT
Thursday 7–8:30pm CT

The full monthly cost is $200. However, because I know many women who need this group CAN'T afford the full group fees, I’m honored to offer a "pay what you can" option for those who could not participate otherwise.

For more details, check out this link: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xbdH3xZZK46mZGA1LUyutXbxCORikjqX/view?usp=drivesdk

If you're interested in joining us but still have questions, please begin by scheduling a free new client consult with me: https://healingtalksback.as.me/

If you’re eager to get the ball rolling, you can register here: https://forms.gle/Zr9s3x8fPMKkMTvN8

In service and support,
Rae Gaelyn Emerson
Healing Talks Back with Rae Gaelyn Emerson

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