09/18/2021
Paul recently received an email from one of his former black belt students. It is one of the greatest compliments he has received in his 30+ years of teaching martial arts. It is not only a testament to his teaching abilities but also affirms that Basix had achieved what Paul had always wanted for the school - a place where students can "freely be" themselves while learning self protection along with self-discipline and respect. Sadly, the email also mentions an unfortunate experience. We thought it important to share (to protect her privacy, initials were substituted for names - Thank you "C"):
"Dear Paul,
I was a student of yours for about 12+ years with my two older sisters, "K" and "E". I was in Reno visiting my dad this weekend and saw your new studio on a drive and I knew I wanted to reach out to you, whether you remember me or not.
I learned so much from you growing up. I was a precocious and independent child (read: difficult!), and my free-spirited attitude often got me in trouble. But I always felt like your studio was a place where I could come and freely be myself and get out energy, while also sneakily learning self-discipline and respect. I know I gave you a hard time sometimes, and I’m sorry for that, but I truly loved learning from you and I’m so appreciative of your kindness, compassion, and good humor. I felt acceptance from you that helped me learn to accept myself.
Perhaps most importantly, you taught me how to protect myself. I was attacked at a party during my second year of college and taken to a secluded room. Despite inebriation, my body kicked into muscle memory and I was able to break my attacker’s grip, shatter his nose, and get out and get help. I was able to defend myself because of you, and I think about you every time I think about that night. Your skills and dedication to teaching me helped save and empower me. I can never thank you enough.
I’m not sure if you often get to hear from former students, but I hope to ensure you that you have made an immeasurable difference in this world. I’m expecting a daughter in December and I hope to teach her what you’ve taught me.
I hope you’re well and enjoying life. Thank you for everything."
CMO
