06/08/2026
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You've identified the driver. Now what?
As a team leader, different drivers require different responses. The goal isn't to manage behavior โ it's to expand it.
โ Team member over-using Impact: Don't tell them to slow down. Ask them to make room.
"What would this look like if the team owned the decision โ not just executed it?"
โ Team member over-using Structure: Don't push them to take risks. Give them a safe container to try.
"What's the smallest version of this that would still tell us something useful?"
โ Team member over-using Connection: Don't ask them to care less. Ask them to say the harder thing.
"What's the thing you're not saying because you're protecting the relationship?"
โ Team member over-using Clarity: Don't lower the bar. Ask them to stay curious.
"What's the version of this you haven't let yourself consider yet?"
You're not changing who they are. You're expanding how they show up.
Next week: how to make the new behavior stick.