Fort Peck Honor Your Life

06/10/2026

Everyone deserves compassion and understanding

06/10/2026

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎

Callie B Parr, Cheryl Woody

Drop a comment to welcome them to our community,

06/10/2026

Niceness versus kindness - what’s the difference?

Niceness is often about managing how others perceive you. Kindness is about genuinely caring about someone else's experience.

The difference shows up in the details. A kind person is considerate when no one is watching, not just in public when it reflects well on them. They treat you well in private, not just around people they want to impress. They're kind when they're frustrated or tired, not just when it's easy. Their consideration extends to the waiter, the stranger, the animal.

Anyone can be nice when it costs them nothing.

Kindness is what shows up when it does.

06/10/2026

Pride is important because someone somewhere tonight thinks that they're better off 💀 than being gay or trans.

06/10/2026

06/09/2026

Codependency looks like this….

For compassionate people (loyal, empathic, other-centered, and caring), it’s easy to get lost in someone else.

Especially easy when so many toxic movies, songs, and stories from childhood taught us we’re only 50% of a person if single — that being in a relationship is what makes you a whole person. 🙄

No WONDER it’s so easy to lose our identity in a relationship and fall into codependent patterns.

It’s like we were practically trained to become that way.

BECAUSE WE WERE. 😳

But it gets worse.

Because if the relationship becomes toxic, troubled, or abusive, our codependent patterns keep us hopelessly stuck (like in this cartoon that I drew). 💔

Hear me on this: we are NOT trying to be codependent.

We’re just trying to save our relationship — because that’s the only way we know how to save ourselves.

So what can we do?

The answer to this mess is simple:

We need to discover our boundaries.

Because the truth is, you are NOT your relationship.

Can your relationship be saved?

Maybe.

Some can. Some can’t. (As you discover your boundaries, you’ll figure out what’s best for your relationship).

But YOU, my friend, can be.

Because you are you. ✨

Not your relationship. Not the toxic behavior. Not the confusion.

You. Pure. Beautiful. And full of innate worth.

That’s a boundary.

❤️
Molly
Therapist-turned-boundaries-guide

For help with this, come take the quiz.
It’s inside my free boundaries minicourse.
Get it here:

Https://boundaried.com/breakthrough 🦋

06/09/2026

“Imagine being an adult acting like a toddler and refusing to communicate because you're being held accountable FOR SOMETHING THAT YOU ACTUALLY DID!

Imagine being an adult acting like a toddler and refusing to communicate because you're being held accountable FOR SOMETHING THAT YOU ACTUALLY DID!

06/09/2026

Pride is important because tonight someone still believes they're better off dead than being gay.

06/08/2026

Parenting your partner looks like…….

If you're constantly managing your partner's life like they're incapable of basic adulting, you're not in a partnership. You're in a parent-child dynamic that will breed resentment on both sides.

You remind them to do basic things they should already be doing. You manage their schedule, appointments, and responsibilities. You clean up after them emotionally and physically without being asked. You make excuses for their behavior to other people.

You feel more like their manager than their equal. You've stopped expecting them to take initiative because it's easier to just do it yourself. You carry the mental load of the entire relationship and household. You're exhausted but they don't seem to notice.

Partnership requires two adults who can handle their own responsibilities. If you're doing all the thinking, planning, and managing while they coast, you're not building a relationship. You're enabling learned helplessness.