07/02/2026
Last year we roto-tilled a hill out in one of our fields and scattered 50 pounds of wildflower seed. The funny thing is... you can't even see that hill from our house. A neighbor recently mentioned how beautiful the flowers were, and I realized I hadn't even walked out there to see them.
So I put on my boots and headed to the field.
As I got closer, I gasped! Look at all the wildflowers!!!
But then, my eyes went straight to the w**ds. They were tall, thick, and practically drowning out the flowers. Then as I walked next to the field, I noticed poison ivy winding itself around all those beautiful flowers reaching for the sun.
I spent some time pulling the tall w**ds. It felt like a losing battle. For every handful I pulled, there seemed to be ten more waiting. And yes... I ended up with poison ivy on my arms as a little souvenir.
As Mark and I talked about planting another hill this fall, we decided we'll prepare the ground differently. Before we sow a single seed, we'll do everything we can, till it, burn it, etc., to clear away the w**ds and poison ivy.
It struck me, because life is filled with metaphors, that this is exactly how lasting change works.
So often we focus on planting new habits:
"I'll eat better."
"I'll exercise."
"I'll stop emotional eating."
"I'll be more patient."
"I'll finally have peace."
But if the w**ds underneath are still growing—fear, shame, people-pleasing, loneliness, old hurts, perfectionism, or believing we're never enough—those new habits have to fight for every inch.
The goal isn't just to plant more or better flowers.
*It's to create the kind of soil where flowers can flourish.
That's why the Craving PEACE journey (Pause, Examine, Align, Commit, Emerge) doesn't begin with willpower or commitment. It begins with Pause and Examine.
We slow down long enough to ask, What's really growing here? What's wrapping itself around the good, God is trying to grow in my life?
Here's the encouraging part: despite the w**ds, the flowers were still blooming! I smile every time I see them- and I go out of my way to see them now.
Maybe that's true for you today too.
Your peace isn't gone.
Your courage isn't gone.
Your joy isn't gone.
They may just be tangled up in some things that no longer belong.
God is a Master Gardener. He is patient with the process, and He never mistakes a w**d for the flower He planted.
What "w**ds" have you noticed trying to crowd out your peace lately?