11/01/2026
This is how I get ready to receive, the bench pulled out from my desk, the sheepskin lifted off, the rug evened out and brushed until it’s soft and inviting, because somewhere in the middle of a session my hands will reach for texture, and I want them to find something that feels like welcome.
I spend most of my time holding space for others, so setting up a space that’s meant to hold me is something I do slowly and on purpose.
If you’re joining me virtually, your space gets to be part of the session too, and it doesn’t have to look like mine. Maybe it’s a blanket you love the feel of under your hands, a cleared surface so nothing tugs at your attention, a candle or a scent that marks the moment you stop being available to everyone, whatever tells your body this hour belongs to you.
By the time I strike the match, my nervous system has already started to soften. Yours can begin softening the same way, in the minutes you spend getting your space ready.
If you’re ready to receive in a space of your own making, the link in my bio is where we begin.
The space gets soft first, so you can.