06/06/2026
Here are three signs of secure attachment.
Number 1-They express emotions openly.
They cry.
They get angry.
They get frustrated.
Because they trust theyโll still be loved.
Number 2- They explore independently.
Secure attachment doesnโt create dependency.
It creates confidence.
Children feel safe leaving because they know they can return.
Number 3- They come back for comfort.
After a scary momentโฆ
A disappointmentโฆ
Or a hard dayโฆ
They seek connection.
Not because theyโre weak.
Because healthy humans are wired for connection.
The goal isnโt raising children who never need anyone.
The goal is raising children who know theyโre worthy of support.โ
