10/24/2026
The “healthy habit” that’s keeping women in perimenopause stuck, and I did it every single day: eating perfectly clean.
I was a coach. I knew what “healthy” was supposed to look like.
Lean protein, vegetables, nothing processed, no slip-ups, and a food plan I followed to the letter.
I thought that discipline was exactly what would fix the weight I was gaining.
So when it kept climbing, I did what I’d always done and got stricter.
It didn’t work, and I couldn’t understand why. I was doing everything right.
Here’s what I know now. In perimenopause, your body reads restriction as stress.
When you’re “eating clean” but also eating less than you need, your cortisol stays high, your blood sugar swings, and your body holds on tighter instead of letting go.
The cleaner and stricter I got, the more bloated, tired, and stuck I felt.
It was never a discipline problem.
My plan was built for the body I had in my 30s, and my hormones had changed the rules without telling me.
When I stopped treating food like a test I had to pass, everything shifted. I ate enough, put protein first, and let the “perfect” plan go.
That’s when my body finally started responding
AND I finally lost 35lbs.
If you’re in perimenopause and being so good that you’re exhausted, the habit you’re proudest of might be the one keeping you stuck.
If you don’t know where to start, comment PERI and I’ll send you my free Perimenopause Playbook.